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Why do men play games?
Posted 9/10/2006 1:47:48 AM
I am trying to figure out why men play games with women. Are they trying to get a reaction? Or see if we will chase them?
When we don't give them the reaction they want they get upset and they don't know how to handle it.
I just don't get it. I refuse to chase a man or follow behind them. Either they can except it or leave it. I don't think I am wrong for not wasting my time on the unneccessary games they like to play. When I notice they are trying to play these games, I don't fall for it. Its time for them to grow up.
I am not up for the games of cat and mouse nor am I up for reverse physcology.
I'm sorry but I must admit, their magic stick is not enough for me to change who I am. If I am wrong for that so be it.
So if someone has that special answer please let me know.
Posted 9/10/2006 1:47:48 AM
I am trying to figure out why men play games with women. Are they trying to get a reaction? Or see if we will chase them?
When we don't give them the reaction they want they get upset and they don't know how to handle it.
I just don't get it. I refuse to chase a man or follow behind them. Either they can except it or leave it. I don't think I am wrong for not wasting my time on the unneccessary games they like to play. When I notice they are trying to play these games, I don't fall for it. Its time for them to grow up.
I am not up for the games of cat and mouse nor am I up for reverse physcology.
I'm sorry but I must admit, their magic stick is not enough for me to change who I am. If I am wrong for that so be it.
So if someone has that special answer please let me know.
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Posted 9/7/2006 12:45:44 AM
What is a true friend? Often, I have struggled to understand what makes one person there, truly, more than the next. We all go through life with different people by our sides at different times in our lives. But some people distinguish themselves. They are true friends.
There are times in all of our lives when we need the comfort and solace of someone who understands completely, and for some reason, continues to help us when we are at our worst, perhaps even exhausting them.
To me, a true friend understands. Not the kinds that say they will be there for you and then are purposely. They are the kind that say theyll be there, then are, and amaze you with how devoted they really are.
Going through a time of crisis reveals that your real friends are. Its not to say that those who are not there for you in these bad times are not good people or good friends. But you get to see their true dedication and moral character when you face adversity.
But your real, true, friends are the ones who come through with flying colors, when you do not even have to ask. There is something magical about the bonds of true friendship. Though you may not have many kinds of these people in your life, be thankful for the ones who are there. The people in our lives are a blessing.
When going through rough times, dont expect everyone to understandyou will just be let down more if they do not. Reach out to your friends if you want them to understand, and give them the opportunity to help. (They arent mind readers!)
If you do not find someone to understand, you know that the person has not defined themselves in your eyes as the kind of person who will be there through thick and thin.
You can still value people in your life who are not till the end friends. These people have just as much to offer, and it should be said that each person in your life is there for a reason. If a friend just does not get the idea that you need him or her, try and understand what that person is going through, or how they view the relationship. Dont be afraid to confront your friend to see if everything is okay. And most of all, dont expect everyone to run to your aid. Everyone is busy with his or her own lives.
Posted 9/7/2006 12:45:44 AM
What is a true friend? Often, I have struggled to understand what makes one person there, truly, more than the next. We all go through life with different people by our sides at different times in our lives. But some people distinguish themselves. They are true friends.
There are times in all of our lives when we need the comfort and solace of someone who understands completely, and for some reason, continues to help us when we are at our worst, perhaps even exhausting them.
To me, a true friend understands. Not the kinds that say they will be there for you and then are purposely. They are the kind that say theyll be there, then are, and amaze you with how devoted they really are.
Going through a time of crisis reveals that your real friends are. Its not to say that those who are not there for you in these bad times are not good people or good friends. But you get to see their true dedication and moral character when you face adversity.
But your real, true, friends are the ones who come through with flying colors, when you do not even have to ask. There is something magical about the bonds of true friendship. Though you may not have many kinds of these people in your life, be thankful for the ones who are there. The people in our lives are a blessing.
When going through rough times, dont expect everyone to understandyou will just be let down more if they do not. Reach out to your friends if you want them to understand, and give them the opportunity to help. (They arent mind readers!)
If you do not find someone to understand, you know that the person has not defined themselves in your eyes as the kind of person who will be there through thick and thin.
You can still value people in your life who are not till the end friends. These people have just as much to offer, and it should be said that each person in your life is there for a reason. If a friend just does not get the idea that you need him or her, try and understand what that person is going through, or how they view the relationship. Dont be afraid to confront your friend to see if everything is okay. And most of all, dont expect everyone to run to your aid. Everyone is busy with his or her own lives.
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10/15/2006 11:33:40 AM
Hi come join our chat room, click on the button in my bio.
Bunny
9/8/2006 11:18:01 AM
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