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Hello!^^ I am Linda Lisa. I'm 23 year old that plays counter-strike.
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Age: 26
Gender: F
Location: Washington, Mo
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Linda Lisa on...Relationships
Posted 2/27/2006 1:15:32 PM
Relationships are so stressful it seems. Don't' get me wrong, I would love to meet a wonderful guy. The thing is, I don't want to waste my time with another relationship that the outcome is the same as the last. It just seems that most of my relationships have been pointless. At first it may be fun and happy, but then can turn into something hurtful. The person you once loved, becomes someone now you hate. Not to be skeptical, just honest.
Letting someone get so close and giving them your heart in trust can be risky. Giving them the power that can make your life great or break you down. Even can make one do many senseless things. Logically, it seems to be a foolish objective in life, but love is what plagues our thoughts and dreams. You can say it is in our blood.
Maybe it is that I don't get relationships at all. I believe I expect too much from the guy I am with. This is only when I am in a relationship. My expectations with my friendships and relationships are very different. When a friend says they are going to do something and then don't, I do not think anything of it. There is no hidden meaning or it is not that they don't want to be friends anymore. I just think that something came up, no big deal and I don't lost any sleep over it.
When I'm in a relationship, it becomes a little more complicated. In the SAME situation, I will think to myself 'why'. Maybe he does not want to be with me anymore or I am not taking the hint. I don't like to worry, but I can do a good job of it. Only when I am dating someone do I act like this and let someone hurt me, whether or not it is my own feelings that are hurting me. Goes back to the old saying...
" You only are hurt by the people that you let hurt you."
So sometimes I tell myself, maybe I do expect too much, but then when someone says that they love me and want to be with me the rest of their lives, maybe it is not to much to ask that they can keep their word. If he can't do the small things , how can he be so sure he can do the important things. Actions do speak louder than words and love is not a feeling, it is a behavior.
Posted 2/27/2006 1:15:32 PM
Relationships are so stressful it seems. Don't' get me wrong, I would love to meet a wonderful guy. The thing is, I don't want to waste my time with another relationship that the outcome is the same as the last. It just seems that most of my relationships have been pointless. At first it may be fun and happy, but then can turn into something hurtful. The person you once loved, becomes someone now you hate. Not to be skeptical, just honest.
Letting someone get so close and giving them your heart in trust can be risky. Giving them the power that can make your life great or break you down. Even can make one do many senseless things. Logically, it seems to be a foolish objective in life, but love is what plagues our thoughts and dreams. You can say it is in our blood.
Maybe it is that I don't get relationships at all. I believe I expect too much from the guy I am with. This is only when I am in a relationship. My expectations with my friendships and relationships are very different. When a friend says they are going to do something and then don't, I do not think anything of it. There is no hidden meaning or it is not that they don't want to be friends anymore. I just think that something came up, no big deal and I don't lost any sleep over it.
When I'm in a relationship, it becomes a little more complicated. In the SAME situation, I will think to myself 'why'. Maybe he does not want to be with me anymore or I am not taking the hint. I don't like to worry, but I can do a good job of it. Only when I am dating someone do I act like this and let someone hurt me, whether or not it is my own feelings that are hurting me. Goes back to the old saying...
" You only are hurt by the people that you let hurt you."
So sometimes I tell myself, maybe I do expect too much, but then when someone says that they love me and want to be with me the rest of their lives, maybe it is not to much to ask that they can keep their word. If he can't do the small things , how can he be so sure he can do the important things. Actions do speak louder than words and love is not a feeling, it is a behavior.
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ajmiguel_23
11/16/2006 11:16:15 PM
hi, can we friend
Jazzallnight
3/10/2006 7:34:02 PM
so true , lessons learned , you will learn the ways of the force young jedi .
mysticgurl
3/8/2006 5:36:16 PM
I feel ya...that is so true!
11/16/2006 11:16:15 PM
hi, can we friend
Jazzallnight
3/10/2006 7:34:02 PM
so true , lessons learned , you will learn the ways of the force young jedi .
mysticgurl
3/8/2006 5:36:16 PM
I feel ya...that is so true!
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