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imthelady
Member Since: 2/6/2007 1:21:55 PMLast Seen: 5/18/2008 9:17:02 AM
About Me
love this quote:: Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear. My chinese name: Gao Ji Lang Porn Star Name: Busty de Lusty Favorite flower: white Daisies, purple tulips Favorite music: Delta Blues and jazz; classical (Bach, JS) quote:: A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out. yet another quote: Our friends are God's way of making up for our relatives...... |
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Posted 5/18/2008 7:58:53 AM
what ever happened to the dream of the promised land? is it over the horizon or just too far out of our reach? or maybe this is it! and we just messed up a good thing. the promised land of peace and humankind working together for the greater good and improvemment of itself mentally and physically. the ridance of disease and poverty the promise that our children are safe from us. where is your promised land nb?
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Posted 5/14/2008 10:43:30 PM
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Posted 5/11/2008 2:50:50 PM
IS HYSTERICAL!DOG DIARY 8:00 am - Dog food! My favorite thing! 9:30 am - A car ride! My favorite thing! 9:40 am - A walk in the park! My favorite thing! 10:30 am - Got rubbed and petted! My favorite thing! 12:00 pm - Lunch! My favorite thing! 1:00 pm - Played in the yard! My favorite thing! 3:00 pm - Wagged my tail! My favorite thing! 5:00 pm - Milk bones! My favorite thing! 7:00 pm - Got to play ball! My favorite thing! 8:00 pm - Wow! Watched TV with my people! My favorite thing! 11:00 pm - Sleeping on the bed! My favorite thing! ---------------------------------------------------------------------- CAT's DIARY Day 983 of my captivity. My captors continue to taunt me with bizarre little dangling objects. They dine lavishly on fresh meat, while the other inmates and I are fed hash or some sort of dry nuggets. Although I make my contempt forthe rations perfectly clear, I nevertheless must eat something in order to keep up my strength. The only thing that keeps me going is my dream of escape. In an attempt to disgust them, I once again vomit on the carpet. Today I decapitated a mouse and dropped its headless body at their feet. I had hoped this would strike fear into their hearts, since it clearly demonstrates what I am capable of. However, they merely made condescending comments about what a "good little hunter" I am. Bastards! There was some sort of assembly of their accomplices tonight. I was placed in solitary confinement for the duration of the event. However, I could hear the noises and smell the food. I overheard that my confinement was due to the power of "allergies." I must learn what this means, and how to use it to my advantage. Today I was almost successful in an attempt to assassinate one of my tormentors by weaving around his feet as he was walking. I must try this again tomorrow -- but at the top of the stairs. I am convinced that the other prisoners here are flunkies and snitches. The dog receives special privileges. He is regularly released - and seems to be more than willing to return. He is obviously retarded. The bird has got to be an informant. I observe him communicate with the guards regularly. I am certain that he reports my every move. My captors have arranged protective c ustody for him in an elevated cell, so he is safe... For now...
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Posted 5/9/2008 8:16:34 PM
here's a shout out to melsbabygirl - and mine- her team the bears won their first basketball game!! whoo-hoo!! score 34 - 27 !! go BEARS!!
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Posted 5/8/2008 8:18:30 PM
The federal government is sending each and every one of us a $600 >rebate. If we spend it at Walmart, the money will go to China . If >we spend it on gasoline, the money will go to the Arabs. If we >purchase a computer it will go to India. If we purchase fruit and >vegetables it will go to Mexico, Honduras and Guatemala. If we >purchase a good car, it will go to Japan. If we purchase useless >crap it will go to Taiwan ... and none of it will help the American >economy. > >The only way to keep the money here at home is to spend it on >prostitutes, weed, beer and tattoos, since these are the only >products >still produced in the USA . > >Thank you for your help and please support the US!!!! >
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Posted 5/8/2008 1:03:37 PM
patiently waiting mellemel's return!! i need a horoscope fix baby!!!
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Posted 4/28/2008 5:24:04 PM
happy birthday figgy!! mel is supposed to get his to get his computer back tomorrow. he says he will try to get u a birthday reading as soon as he gets it back!!
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Posted 4/25/2008 11:28:23 AM
i saw in our local paper that our shelter , which is around the corner from us, and it said that all the kittens had been adopted and this 1 year old orange cat named hobo was all alone in the shelter well i just couldnt stand it. the lady who was doing my hair, her husband works with the shelter and i told him i wanted that cat. so he made a phone call and i took 35 bucks and a carrier and went and got HOBO, whom we now call SONNY! SONNY HAVING PROBLEM GETTING USED TO BROWNIE OUR DOG AND FITTY OUR OTHER CAT WONT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH HIM. HE JUST MAINLY SITS IN MY LAP WHILE IM WORKING WHICH IS WHAT I WANTED IN A CAT. I KEPT HIM IN THE BATHROOM LAST NIGHT UNTIL HE GETS USED TO THE HOUSE. HE'S IN MY LAP NOW AS IM TYPING THE OTHER TWO ARE LAYING NEXT TO EACH OTHER ON THE FLOOR BY THE OPEN SLIDING DOOR ENJOYING THE AFTERNOON BREEZE.........ANY SUGGESTIONS ON HOW I CAN GET THEM TO GET ALONG OR WILL IT JUST TAKE TIME? OH FITTY HAS BEEN DECLAWED AND SONNY HAS NOT YET. TAKING HIM TO VET AS SOON AS I CAN GET AN APPOINTMENT! IM SO EXCITED.......HE'S SUCH A GOOD KITTY...
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Posted 4/22/2008 5:43:16 AM
hey gang! talked to mel yesterday and he said to tell everyone sorry but his computer is in the shop...been there for a week!! kinda ticked about that but hopefully will be back soon and horoscopes will be up and running...i dont know about yal but im having horoscope withdrawals lol........
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Posted 4/16/2008 9:46:54 PM
I know we're not on speaking terms right now but i just wanted to wish you melliemel a happy birthday and many more......HON. Celebrate the best way u know how.....smile.
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Posted 4/15/2008 1:09:10 PM
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BRIAN!! MANY MORE TEDDYBEAR!!
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Posted 4/11/2008 8:17:19 PM
It's becoming more evidentMuch more obvious to me I thought much more of you Than you ever thought of me Was this my biggest mistake Letting myself think you cared Was I just your marionette With heartstrings open and bared With me left here still thinking What was false, what was true So puzzling and so complex I�m left to await another clue On my heartstings you played Each left with a loving memory Yet I still have those questions Do you ever think about me I�m wondering why all the intrigue Now why all of this mystery Why am I left here hanging Your the one that holds the key.
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Posted 4/11/2008 8:11:29 PM
Have You ever loved someoneBut knew they didn't care? Have You ever felt like crying But Knew you'd get no where? Have you ever looked into their eyes And said a little prayer? Have you ever looked into their hearts And wished that you were there? Have you ever felt their heartbeat, When the lights were turned down low? Have you ever whispered "God, I love You" But you'll never let me show? Love is grand, yet it hurts so much. The price you pay is high. If I could choose between Love and Death, I'd rather choose to die. So do not fall in love, my friend, It doesn't pay a dime. It only causes broken hearts, Yet it happens all the time. So do not fall in love, my friend, You'll hurt before it's through. I ought to know, my friend - I fell in love with you.
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Posted 4/11/2008 8:06:36 PM
The hottest love has the coldest end.Socrates everything..... Every new beginning, comes from some beginnings end. Every time you kill me, I am born again. Every time you close that door, Another door is opened. And every time you say goodbye, a different word is spoken. Every time you look at me my back is facing you, And every time you ask to see me I'll have something else to do. Every time I join your game, You're not playing fair, And every time I really love you, I pretend that I don't care.
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Posted 4/11/2008 6:59:09 PM
sandi and i took off today and went to manteo to the aquarium and to nags head to the beach. as i sat there on my towel watching her play in the waves and the sun warmed my legs back and arms. i listened. there were not many people out there so there was nothing but her laughter and the sound of the waves crashing on the shore, the seagulls fighting for position in front of everyone who sat down looking for a handout of somekind. the smell of the ocean air. it was about 75 degrees and sunny and beautiful. my daughter adn i talked and laughed and played and picked up shells and ate and drank...........well, i could have stayed there all day and part of tonite. i havent been that relaxed in a long time. i love the beach but not the ocean. im afraid of the currents-smile. but it was wonderful. when things start to get tough i'll have this day in my mind to go back and revisit. i love the beach......
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Posted 4/10/2008 3:35:11 PM
He's back!!! gary posted his first blog back on netpotion no long ago.......no heart can keep him down...........
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Posted 4/10/2008 10:44:13 AM
gary gets to come home at noon today......cant drive, cant do much, no sex..........but will have internet access. there's talk of getting him a really cute nurse to 'ease' him through all of this........lol
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Posted 4/9/2008 9:50:53 PM
The Keys to Your Life  Anything good in your life comes from your ability to play and be free. The best way for you to solve a problem is to let go of it. Anything bad in your life comes from sinking to the level of those around you. Remember to lift people up, and refuse to participate in anything petty.
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Posted 4/9/2008 7:45:15 PM
I've never written a love letter, not once in my life. I can't say that I've ever even received one. Isn't that awful. LOL Well today while sitting under the dryer at the salon I was feeling all mushy and a love letter came to mind. I have to type it now while it is fresh on my mind or else I'll forget. Maybe I'll get to send to someone special one day. Until then, I've decided to write my love letter to Love..................enjoy!!!: Hello love, Last night was hard for me. It was one of those nights spent missing you and wishing you were here. I tossed and turned, turned and tossed and finally I fell into my slumber. When I closed my eyes you were so heavy on my mind....so much so that I dreamt of you. In my dream you were across from me, talking to me.....reminding me of how much you loved me, how much you needed me, how important I was to you. I sat there watching, listening, desiring your every word and felt my heartbeats pace quicken with happiness as I new you'd feel this way forever. After you finished your thoughts, you looked at me with curiosity. You then asked "jill, why do u think you are in love with me?" Without having to think about it much I said to you........."I don't think I am, I know that I am. So if your question to me is what is it about u that I am in love with, then I can answer that." I simply love the way u make me feel. Not just one or two emotions, but with you I've felt every emotion possible. You have taken me from deep sadness to overwhelming joy..........I've felt anger beyond compare but cried tears of extreme happiness. You have taken me to places filled with sweet innocence then turned around and filled me with me ecstacy. Yes, I simply love the way you make me feel. I love the little things about you. I love the way you look........that smile, those eyes, that perfectly shaped head..LOL...I love the way you smell.....whether it be aftershave or your favorite cologne........I love the way you feel to my hands touch....I love..... the way......you taste...( I'll leave that one alone)......I love the warmth the comes from your body when you hold me in your arms at night, so calming, so comforting.......I love the way your hands feel--when their holding my hands or touching my face, or fingers through my hair.....or when rubbing my thighs in passion that may at times get a litte crazy. Those same hands are strong when necessary........and in those times I feel safe and protected....... I love the way you look at me from across a room....the way your eyes smile at me and say "I miss you way over there, come to me." I love your voice and its soft whispers in my ear in the mornings when I'm still sleeping.......I love the way you communicate..whether it be from a touch, or words spoken, a card just because......a dozen roses sent....a kiss, a hug.....a pat on the butt (hey women like that ya know).....a phone call in the middle of my work day.........I love the many ways you communicate, just so I know you have me on your mind. I love the fact that you show me that I am enough. You sit back and relax and allow me to love you the way I know how....even though I can't make u a cake made from scratch, you don't leave a crumb behind when I bake you a cake from the box......When I touch you or kiss you, you don't become easily aggravated with my shows of affection...instead you welcome my form of love toward you. You don't attempt to change me, mold me into this image you have in your mind of what your perfect woman is. You look at me, as I am and say "that is her". I don't have to walk like Simone or dress like Alicia.....I don't have to smell like Jennifer did nor do I have to have the education that Elnora had........My butt doesn't have to bounce like Beyonce and my skin doesn't have to look like Halle.....you still find me sexy, appealing and absolutely beautiful. I don't have to kiss you the same way that Veronica did, as a matter of fact....my kisses make you wonder what was sooooo good about Veronica anyway. I am all you need and I love that I am finally enough. After all of this was said, you smiled at me...From across the table you reached for my hands and held them lovingly. Then you stood up to come to my side of the table. Once you kneeled down in front of me and leaned in for a kiss, my dream was interrupted by my alarm clock. Again, I was unable to feel you lips against mine nor was I able to touch your face as I realized upon awakening that you were not really there. It's been so long since I've felt you Love and I miss you terribly. Where are you now? I'm patiently waiting for you. Hello Love, last night was hard for me......It was one of those night spent missing you and wishing you were here. Always and with Love, Me
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Posted 4/9/2008 10:57:23 AM
Okay seriously....Gary is trippin! He had no clue he was having a heart attack, he was just so uncomfortable...he figured he better get it checked out. I am not going into many details about that cause then I am stealing his potential material for his blog when he gets home...which he has not been told when he can leave. They will not let him walk around, but he can eat whatever he wants, of course he hates their food so he chose to have a relative bring him a bag of the miniature Reese cups and he ate those. While talking he would joke with the nurses that came in....as in "Am I dying?", "Am I in trouble?", well, you know Gary. He said its okay to let you guys know he is in St. John's Hospital in Springfield, Missouri. Oh, I do have to say...nothing has changed...he told me how when being transported to the hospital in the ambulance, he was sitting up on the gurney and watching the traffic pull over as they sped down the road and he commented that they had changed the sign at the Paradise Video store (yes, its an adult book store)....and he says he is bored.... And about the radio station...he does listen religiously to the morning show hosted by Kevin & Liz and they said they would air emails sent for him with well wishes....so again its Alice955@alice955.com .
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Posted 4/8/2008 10:02:03 PM
for those of u who know gary he had a heart attack and is in the hospital. send up prayers for him please. last i heard he was doing better.
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Posted 4/7/2008 7:10:58 PM
You're cuter than a box of kittens and more playful than a passel of puppies these days. Everyone wants to stop and pet you on the head and give you a treat -- such is the general affect your adorableness has on all and sundry. Don't be shy about getting out there, either -- everyone needs to get a gander at your fabulous self, especially right now. Go ahead and strut your stuff!
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Posted 4/7/2008 12:46:53 PM
10 Commandments of LoveGive 100% of yourself at all times. Treat your partner as the unique individual that he/she truly is. Stay connected through your word and actions. Accept change and support growth in both yourself and your partner. Live your love. Share the love, fear, work, and play. Listen to your mate. Honor the subtle wisdom of the heart and listen to the powerful insights of the mind. Do not be a jerk or a nag. Integrate the purity of spiritual love with the passion of physical love and the power of emotional love.
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Posted 4/7/2008 12:42:25 PM
I could use a little romance in my life u know. i found this online.10 Ways to Turn Everyday Occurrences into Romantic Moments Here are some ways to incorporate romance into your everyday life: Breakfast Love. Make a date for a romantic breakfast. Eat breakfast together in bed while you ponder the day ahead. Create a romantic meal by cutting her toast into heart shapes with a cookie cutter or add heart shaped ice cubes to his orange juice. You could even create heart shaped pancakes using a cookie cutter. If you'd rather not cook, make a breakfast date. Even if it's I-Hop, head out for a breakfast together. Auto Love. On a cold winter day, go outside and start her car for her so that it's warm when she gets in to leave. If you're in a colder area, perhaps you could scrape the ice off her windshield or shovel the snow from around the car. Lunch Love. Make him a lunch and put a love note inside letting him know what's waiting for him when he gets home. Surprise her at the office and take her out to lunch. Make a lunch date, but spending your time lovin' rather than eatin'. Say "I Love You". Sure, you say "I Love You", but the key to making those three little words more romantic is surprise. Give your sweetie a call at lunch just to tell them that you were thinking of them. Send them a text message just to say "I Love You." Leave them a voice mail telling them "I Love You". Dinner Time. An everyday dinner can be turned into one filled with romance. Eat dinner by candle light or on your good china rather than everyday dishes. Add aphrodisiacs to the dinner menu for a spiced up night. Surprise him with his favorite dinner or bring home takeout from her favorite restaurant. Romantic TV. The next time you sit down together in front of the TV, watch something romantic! Set your tivo ahead of time for a romantic tv show or movie or pick up a romantic flick from your local video store. If you're not watching something romantic, make the moment romantic. Get a large blanket and cuddle up close on the couch. Romantic Relaxation. Fill the tub with bubbles and candles all around let her relax in the tub. While she's relaxing in the tub, do the dinner dishes for her. If she's Lingerie Lovining. If you want to really turn up the bedroom romance, surprise him with some sexy lingerie. Use candles everywhere. Candles make everything more romantic. If you've ever eaten a romantic dinner by candle light, you know what we mean. Eat a romantic dinner by candle light together (or at least a decadent dessert), dance to your song by candle light, take a candle lit bubble bath together, and then make love by candle light. Sleep in romance. Even sleeping can be romantic... especially depending on what happens before hand. Buy a set of satin sheets.
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Posted 4/6/2008 12:10:06 AM
my cat just got fixed about 3 weeks ago. ever since i got back from dc the little fucker has been pissing all over the house!! i cant have that.....i will not live in a house that smells like cat piss!! she pissed on my bed while i was gone and after i beat the shit outta her i decided i better ask some of u cat people what the hell is wrong with this damn cat before i kill her!!!
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Posted 4/4/2008 2:28:18 PM
You Are 60% Weirdo  You're definitely quite strange, but you can act like a normal person when you have to. (But just because you can act normally, it certainly doesn't mean you want to!) You have normal aspects to your personality... but you usually don't choose to emphasize them.
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Posted 4/3/2008 8:33:05 AM
Dear Abby, My husband is a liar and a cheat. He has cheated on me from the beginning, and, when I confront him, he denies everything. What's worse, everyone knows that he cheats on me. It is so humiliating. Also, since he lost his job six years ago, he hasn't even looked for a new one. All he does all day is smoke cigars, cruise around and shoot the bull with his buddies, while I have to work to pay the bills. Since our daughter went away to college he doesn't even pretend to like me, and even hints that I may be a lesbian. What should I do? Signed: Clueless Dear Clueless: Grow up and dump him. Good grief woman! You don't need him anymore! You're a Senator from New York running for President of the United States. Act like one.
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Posted 4/2/2008 1:11:55 PM
 i just went to turn up my heat and look out the back sliding door and to my surprise saw what my dog has been gazing at all morning......a yard full of robin red breasts!! they are everywhere!!]]did u know that they sing in the winter!!
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Posted 4/2/2008 7:50:13 AM
EVERYTIME I BRING UP THE SUBJECT OF SEX AND LOVE I FEEL LIKE IM BEING ATTACKED!! I CANT HELP WANTING WHAT I WANT AND EXCUSE ME FOR WANTING A LITTLE AFFECTION IN MY LIFE. I NEED TO FEEL NEEDED AND WANTED BY THOSE I CARE ABOUT. SOMETIMES I THINK MY OWN CHILD WOULD RATHER BE WITH SOMEONE ELSE AND WELL THAT'S PAINFUL. OH FORGET IT.......NO ONE WILL EVER UNDERSTAND.......THESE BLOGS ARE MERELY A WAY OF GETTING OUT FEELINGS OF THE MOMENT SO THEY DONT BOTTLE UP AND EXPLODE ON ME. I LOVE SEX AND LOVE SO THERE I SAID IT.....NOW WHO CANT DEAL WITH THAT?! IM SORRY BUT THAT JUST ME. ITS NOT ALL IM ABOUT BUT RITE NOW THIS SECOND THAT'S WHATS ON MY MIND. AN HOUR FROM NOW IT MIGHT BE SOMETHING DIFFERENT. IM SORRY IM VERY PROFOUND RIGHT THIS MINUTE........AH HELL, IM GOING BACK TO BED AGAIN..........AT LEAST I'LL BE SAFE THERE.......SMILE
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Posted 4/1/2008 5:09:14 PM
in the past 20 years ive seen almost everyone i love pass away. im now left with one great aunt-who at 104 i think will be here forever- an uncle and an aunt on my dad's side and an aunt on my mom's side. none of them are really extremely close to me. really if it were not for sandi i dont think i would hear from them at all. but that's no what bothers me. ive loved a lot of men in my 41 years and i still have no idea what it's like to BE loved. sure, i had sex with most of them but they just did their business and left me. where's the cuddling and the touching and the late nite talks or is that even what it's all about? where's that feeling of comfort im supposed to have lying next to the one i love and who loves me. sadly at my age and settlement i fear i will leave this earth never knowing this feeling...........unfortuately i'll have plenty of company. u know being alone and feeling alone are not the same. ive been to both places and returned. i dont mind being alone but i sure would like someone too love me the way i deserve to be loved. im not even going to pretend to be one of those strong modern women, hell, i need a man in my life! aint no shame in that! but damn, the ones that i always want dont want me for one reason or another. i've only been IN love twice in my life.........i cant have one because he's married now and the other.........well, we're good friends but his heart belongs to someone he cant have which means it'll never be mine and well, he just doesnt love me like that. and that's ok, it's his choice. im not going to force anyone into anything.....he's now my best friend in the world and i trust him with my life!......ok im just rambling now..........im going back to bed...........
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