GreatFallz

Love.

posted on 4/14/2007 9:06:25 AM in Society: (0) Comments

Cause its late and I'm tired as such but determined to at least get something up before I hit the sheets. I'm just kind of going to leave you with two quotes and editing and elaborating on them tomorrow. I blame my ISP for dying on me at my height of creative juices.

I promise also to reply to those kind people that have already taken effort to welcome me to New Blog. It shall happen tomorrow with two blogs posts. Yes. Lets be excited together.

Anyway the two quotes:

Love is my heart your hands.
Love is like giving someone the power to destroy you...and trusting them not to

Curious. I shall elaborate tomorrow.
As promised I shall go on.

I might have mislead by giving you two quotes about love. Indicating perhaps the topic is heartbreak, when I'll assure you that if it might be touched on. Its definitely not the matter of the topic I am addressing. So rather then looking at the meaning of the two qoutes, look rather at the weight they have.

Particularly in my own society (Australian Teen) I've got to watch it cause Love could easily be picked up with the wind and blown away. Yeah it really seems to mean nothing anymore to many people. With a divorce rate of nearly 50% now, I'm kind of wondering where the meaning of it all went.

I don't know how it is in other places in the world, but over here its said so carelessly and with such ease. Relationships lasts for only days and the presence off "love" is already overwhelming. When really they don't even know their partner yet. Its rather sad.

But I personally believe that its not the Teenagers at all to blame for their seeming lack of ignorance. Mayhap the source lies in the portrayal and advertising of love so carelessly by the media and the "romantic" version in movies as such.

I think because of this teenagers have been given the wrong impression of love and more so a distorted view of it. Being fueled on by all these marketing ideas they drive to fall in "love", then when they do are they really in love? Well I theorize around the basis that rather then being in love, they are in love with the idea of being in love.

I know its a rather confusing and strange statement to make, but its the only way I can theorize then around the meaning to why people still suffer "heartbreak". I don't think many people really suffer heartbreak, but actually suffer of realization. Realization that they never were really in love, and all the deeds that were committed with the idea that they were fueled by love were actually committed with pure physical lust.

Which generally leaves one feel used, deprived of what was wonderful. As the fond memories now are replaced with a mask and stuff seems like a facade of lies. Everything what seemed right at the time and meant something, now doesn't and makes them the same as most "low-life" girls who purely go for the physical hype it offers.

Again this then supports the fact that men suffer it less then females. The largest part of males in my society tend to have significantly larger physical attraction and need of physical satisfaction then the female counterpart. Caring far less for the romantic side things then they do, and generally a good relationship for them is based on the level of physical satisfaction acquired in contrary to the female's level of "meaning" accomplished.

Now less of the scientific stuff, and more of the emotional side of things. Your not wrong to think Love is a wonderful thing. Because yes, real love is a wonderful thing. I am saying don't love because no one seems to understand the full weight of the word. But rather do and just refrain yourself from saying it without truly meaning it.

Mind you its probably not for everyone, this is just my view on it how I handled it. I assure you to it worked for me (I bolded that so you understand to consider love on each individual case) and as it stands I am happy and I believe I am in love. But I could be mistaken as much as the next poor guy next to me.

So I suppose I'd like to rant on it, but I'm not entirely sure where to exactly rant on. Maybe someone will show and their be a part two to this whole complicated thing called Love. But basically not to confuse you as to where I stand this is what my opinion is:

I am annoyed that love is treated so lightly. But I don't blame anyone for doing so, everyone seems to be simple mistaken.

~Tom.

The Creation. -gasp-

posted on 4/13/2007 5:44:47 AM in Amusements: (0) Comments

Amusing.

I finally took the time to create a blog that wasn't confined to whatever myspace calls its 'professional' blog services. Handy, but it doesn't allow for your opinion to get heard by anyone but a handful of people of which most like to say, "LOLZ I'll read your blog! If u commnt me kay! LOLZ."

-ahem-

Really, I'll be blunt with you all. I despise people who go on Myspace just to demand pitiful comments on pictures from people they don't like, just to make themselves feel a little bit more big and great. When really they are lower when the people that actually sit there and cut their wrists in drowned in self pity.

Then again I could ask you. Which stereotype is worse? The Emo or rather the attention seeker. I'll let you ponder on that while I continue giving you an insight on what exactly I am about. Because I can assure you 250 characters doesn't exactly suffice to my witty weary mind.

If your good at people judging though, your on the right track if you sense elements of crazy and a lot of self confidence. Modesty is not my thing. You've got the public to blame that for, not me. I just use whats handed to me on that shiny golden platter. You should try it to.

Anyway, there isn't much else I can write, or rather want to write for now. It would involve elaborating on me as a person or discussing some random topic that I might want to save for my next entry and I want to challenge you and attempt to 'read' me by reading my thoughts. Which really, for the intellect out there should not be hard.

But here is basically what you can expect over the next few days:

• A new Layout - This is just a standard one. I'm all about the uniqueness.
  
• Some form of outline of what to expect in my blogs.
  
• Anything else I could possibly come up with.