STAYING FOCUS

Staying focus I hear lots of people making comments or statements about how men and women are different and treat you better in bigger cities. I hear lots of people making comments or statements about how small towns are better to raise a child and safer then the bigger cities. You will learn that people are people and places are places , which means you are the one that make it to be better for you in life Women are saying men are real polite and respectful in the bigger cities. Men are saying women are much smarter and classier in the smaller towns. When I look at each situation I can understand what they both are trying to say and what it mean. A man in bigger cities have more competition to comply to so he have to treat all woman with respect…..lol Not!!!!. A man in smaller towns will take his time to get to know a woman because she might know the next person he may try to talk to…….Not!!!!!!. Anyhow, how ever you look at it I will be right in what i may say because I can find bits and pieces that will make it true because there are no difference in how people act in smaller towns or bigger cities they just has different times on showing it. I have been to every state accept North Dakota. The only thing that I notice that is different is the clothing and the way people speak, but the people attitudes and personalities are still the same. Some places are people just packed in close together and some places people are just so far apart. Other things that maybe different when you go to other states are the pay, cost of living, and the food and water. Remember when people use to ask you where you from when you say something to them that make sense? They use to say " it must be something in the water." I believe it is something in the water and they are afraid to talk about it, but that's another story. What they mean is the water is running faster in the bigger cities then the smaller towns. The bigger cities are more advance in material things then smaller town, but the people are the same. Now as always , If you don't agree with what I am trying to educate you on I will break it down for you. First, we need to agree on one thing and one thing only. Its you and it is always you 90% of the time. Stop pointing fingers and trying to place the blame on a town or other people. We don't need to talk about anybody else when we all ready know its you. When you move from one state to the next, you are the one with the new attitude. You start thinking about everything you wish you can do different in the new town then what you didn't agree with in the old town. Its called The Move, the move is a change in how you live your life to a new and better way of living everyday after. You can be a different person every time you move, but when you move to a different state you have a new attitude that goes along with your move. When you adjust to your new attitude from moving to the new state. People will know and see you as whom you have mature to be not as how you use to be. Even when you are a visitor to a new state for a vacation. It would be like a fairytale story until you return back home to reality. You always talk about how much fun and how much of a good time you had when you was there, but you forgot you had adjusted your attitude so when you returned your old attitude came back with you. This is so true because people are saying the same thing about the place you trying to get away from. They may visit your home town and say so many nice things about it which will make you think only about the fun times you had and the next thing you know you have more good stories about your home town then the town you are living in. When they talk about the people, you will become puzzled. When you decide to visit your home town in which you put low on your charts to have an enjoyable and happy vacation time. When you visit your old home town its different to you. You will say, damn where did he or she come from or when did they put this here, as you was making your move to better your life other people are making there move also to better there's. Women - Let me tell you a little secret, men can be polite and respectable if and when they want to be, go to church or work with them and listen how they speak. If you are relating their behavior on going out to clubs, well lets look at a small town club. 75% of the respectable and polite men are taking, 10% of them not sure on what or who they really want and need a good, and 15% of the them you just cant see. The one's that are disrespectful to you, you don't consider them to be men anyways. Wake up!!! That is men in general, every where. The bigger cities have the same percentage but a bigger crowd. If you are a mature woman you will start to see the same traits in your new male friends are the same as your old. Each person will remind you of somebody you grew up with, but you really didn't take the time to get to know them like you are taking your time learning your new friends. The women that say "I want me a good man", or "where are all the good man at?" Are trying to take the easy life with immaturity, Are women of wants. Women who accept a man and helps him to become that good man as well as a good father figure or a good father are woman of needs. The women of needs are women with responsibilities and maturity. These are women who will take what they have to satisfy their needs instead of crying over their wants. Therefore the women of wants , wants your man you develop instead of putting in the time, effort, pain, and patience to develop their own. Men - now,… men have this image problem when it comes to women…. or everything else in life. If they are from a small town and had dated a woman before or know someone who has dated her before in the past, he will create this development of sisterhood or close friendship with her, he will always be playful and complements her but she wont hear him. He really don't see the adjustment of her maturity. When she leave town, the next man notice her right away, but when she returns to the old town for a visit the old male friends will be so polite and respectful and different to her, most of the time that is how some of life's true love and relationship works on people. In the bigger cities you will have your choice of meeting the polite, smart, classy, and respectable people depending how much money you are willing to spend. In smaller towns you can meet these people anywhere in town. What is the difference? Smaller towns have a better percentage of advancing and becoming someone in life then bigger cities. The bigger cities has your typical morning stress methods you have to overcome, plus you have to wait in line and wait to be satisfied. Smaller towns its who you know and how you shine. Raising a child comes from the home, it doesn't matter where you raise your child as long as you give them a loving home nothing can go wrong about where you live. Crime can happen anywhere, to protect your family is to educate them in life. Life makes it hard for you to see that person to whom you maybe looking for, at the same time they may be right there in your face, but because you make your own decisions and maturity adjustments kicks in, you will be blind to notice. You might meet someone that reminds you of them or return home to greet your old friend in your adjusted life. Parents and grandparents know the secret already, that is why some parents keep close contact with your old friends to try to bring you two back together again. The longer you stay in one town people will develop their own image of you from how you display your habits. Going to a new town you may start all over, but in the end you will get the same display if you don't understand and adjust your habits correctly. If we have the time, patience, and knowledge as our parents do we wont take the long road to the understanding path, we will be there. Most people have to experience it themselves to understand it deeply in their souls. (0) Comments

Posted: 5/15/2007 9:27:03 AM

WHO WRONG??

How can it be wrong? I am so tired of people saying they dated the wrong person. Do you know that person you dated will be the right person for someone else. How can they be wrong? Just because things didn’t work out between the both of you don’t make it wrong. You just didn’t know how to make it right. Everybody you come across in your lifetime is just a person until you get to know them. After you learn their habits, actions, and traits you probably may realize that this person may not be for you, but that don’t make it wrong. Once you come to terms with yourself and realized that the choices you make in your life is the path you choose to walk on you will be able to make it right. Something must of been right for you to pursue that relationship in the beginning. You just need to learn how to keep it going. When things starts to go bad you run, rather then learning how to work it out. Whatever situation you may run from in a relationship life will put it right back in your path somehow until you learn to understand them. The problems you run from may not come back to you in your next relationship, but It can come down the line through your children or someone that may be close to you. The main problem people have is trying to solve these problems with out understanding them first. You rather point the finger or place a blame when something in your life didn’t work out. This is your life you are living make it right. If you don’t realized that it is you that makes these decisions in your life and learn to understand it, your life will be filled of stories and disappoints of praising that wrong person. If you choose to understand your choices there is no wrong. When I hear a person say that they just keep dating the wrong person and they trying to find the right one, I know that this person will have problems, because of no closure and understanding. People don’t understand when they talk bad about the person in their past relationships reflects the true actions of them because they dated them. If you know a person is doing something you may not agree with then don’t date them if you going to complain about them later. If you are sexually attractive to them and just want sex don’t call it a relationship. Woman have this problem bad. They think if they have sex with a person with out a relationship it is considered being used. In reality they wanted just the sex in the beginning but just couldn’t keep their mouth shut. Therefore, they will take a one night stand or a booty call and called it a relationship for them not to feel used, or they just simply want more sex. A sexually relationship will blind you of the wrong doing of a person and you wont see or care to discuss the problem until the relationship or sex come to a close. To move on in life is to understand with out the blame and eliminate the wrong. Da Bishop (0) Comments

Posted: 5/11/2007 6:33:54 PM

TAKE MAMA OFF THE CHAINS

Tuesday, May 08, 2007 TAKE MAMA OFF THE CHAINS Current mood: annoyed Category: MySpace Take mama off the chains Growing up as a child I got my butt whip when I said or did anything wrong. No It wasn't a spanking or a time out it was a belt whipping and a harsh punishment followed. As a child I had thoughts of running away, but those thoughts always go away the very next day when I see the love that my family shared with each other. I would never want to be with any other family other then my own. We eat together, play together, go to church and pray together, go fishing together, camp together and share each other love for ever. When I look back on everything that I done I am glad my parents disciplined me the way the did, because it made me second guess myself and think twice on my negative thoughts I have today. I remembered when I was seven years old outside playing ball with my cousins in the field next to the house. The ball got away from us and had bounce its way over where the girls was playing rope. My sister grab the ball and threw it further toward the street. This made me real mad, I had to run faster to retrieve the ball, everyone was laughing. When I got the ball I slammed it right in her face as hard as I can and her nose burst out with blood. She screamed as loud as she could and started crying. My aunt ran out of the house and ask her what happened and she told her I hit her in the face with the ball. My aunt looked at me and said " after to day you will never hit another female again."…….. she was right ….I was 7 years old and in 30 years I never hit a female and never will….Now this was some mind wondering shit that they do what they do to you. I had hit my sister, but my aunt said female and she went deeper by saying the word again . I knew this was going to be deeper then a normal ass whipping. My dad and uncle started packing the van with fishing equipment. Then my uncle told all the male kids in the family that everybody was going fishing accept me, and he stated " I don't know what the hell he had done, but we are getting the hell out of here." I wanted to run away, and I knew I couldn't call the police, because I got my ass whip plenty of times in front of them so that wouldn't work. I just sat on the front porch and watch all the guys in the family take off to go fishing. All of the sudden cars started rolling up from every direction. These cars was filled with females in my family from the age of 3 to 89. As they walk pass me from where I sit, they was hugging and kissing me with sympathy. I said to myself this is some deep shit !!!!!!! RUN…dumb as run!!!! They left 5 of my older female cousins on the front porch to keep an eye on me. I could run but they was fast and they will catch me, but I just cant sit there and let these crazy ass woman kill me. I started to scoot down slowly from one step to the next, in my mind as soon as my feet reaches the ground i'm out of there. They was already on top of the situation like the did this shit many times before. When my first foot had reach the ground I was snatch up right behind the neck like a stray cat about to get kick out of the house. I was stripped of all of my clothing and dragged right to the kitchen. There was a chair in the middle of the kitchen floor for which I was to lay across. They place a broom stick behind my neck with a female on each end bracing it to hold me down across the chair. They all then took turns whipping my ass for 2hrs straight. I like when the younger females hit me because it was quick and soft and the only thing I can hear them saying "now" and passing the belt along. The older ones had some damn issues and was taking it out on me. They was screaming some shit with a damn book story behind it along with their inner pain branding into my soul. Every time the elders hit me It was a story that made me feel ashamed. As a child would I call this abuse? Hell yeh! As a adult and who I am today? hell no! Time out and spanking is for the ages of 3 to 5. Whippings and punishments are for 6 on up. What people don't understand discipline with home training last a life time with understanding. I think in the situation I was in it took my family to get involve to let me to no about things I was to young to understand, but as I get older it will fall in to place. My family had seen their share of wife beaters and there will be a cold day in hell if they would let one be raise up in the family. I am happy my family guided me in the right direction because it made me a good man today. Abuse is hitting out of anger with out reason. I don't agree with abuse but I do believe in discipline. The only thing the government did with this child abuse shit was took the power away from the parents and gave it to the school system and law enforcement. When I was growing up the only one I feared was my parents. Now I fear no one. Fear in my parents to me was more like respect and honor by no choice. I wasn't scared of my parents I just honored them so high that I didn't put no one above them but god. These days children don't have that respect of honor in their parents. They just have fear in the law without respect or honor for society. This I blame the government, they need to give the discipline and home training back to the parents. We have too many school shooting and so many youth are doing what they want to do without meaning or family love. Looking at school shootings on television with all those law enforcements officers with guns drawing is not the answer to end the problems. Using weapons to regain control of the youth situation is more abusive then using the belt. Using drugs to medicate our youth to regain control is a form of addiction is more abusive the using the belt. If you call the law enforcement officer on a child when they are out of control they will use the reasonable amount of force necessary to detain them as if they were adults. What is the difference? Law enforcement are trained individuals ……..we know how that can turn out…lol Seriously, its all about the money. Take mama off the chains, untie their hands and license the parents to discipline their children with respectable home training and love. Children wont understand until they become adults and they will be more grateful to society for not contributing to the wrongful solution of being on drugs, locked up or dead. Da Bishop (0) Comments

Posted: 5/8/2007 4:32:12 PM

LET MY PEOPLE GO!!!

Monday, May 07, 2007 LET MY PEOPLE GO!!! Current mood: angry Category: MySpace I think the drug tack force is weak punks!!!!! They always locking up the wrong people. Look at x tablets, and ect….these are in a tablet form, no kid, no uneducated man or educated man we associate in our everyday life made this shit. They always seem to lock up the little man and they know just where to find the big man. The big man pay big tax to keep the shit on the street, that's why they don't fuck with them! That goes with all drugs. Mr. drug task force man let the little people go!!!! you put them in the predicament to survive and hustle to make you more money on your jewelry , cars , sound system, courts, and ect. Making the stock market grow who the hell you think can pay cash for a escalator in the hood !!!!.. If it wasn't for them everybody will be driving a damn Honda….. Then you turn around and lock up the little man, Mr. drug task force man. If they didn't make a million like you do let the little man go!!!! This dumb shit been going on for along time, but it time for the people to stand up and say enough is enough!!! How the fuck you can be talking about the war on terrorism when you cant keep the drugs out of this country. You are a liar! If that's the case we all will be dead if you don't know where these damn drugs are coming from. You rather to lock up the little people just to show progress to take our tax money and leave the big man alone to supply you. Kill me if you want, shut me up if you think you can , but you just hit home with me on this shit. I spend all my life working with youth trying to get them to understand and adjust why you do what you do to them. In reality you are the big man, Mr. Drug task force man!!!! The kids that don't do drugs you put them on drugs because of their behavior. You are a big liar, and the drug dealer we all been looking for , LET MY PEOPLE GO!!!!!!!! Locking up kids for the drugs you produce and disturber is plain wrong! You notice what charges they give them ….ok lets think about this dumb shit; Drug trafficking------- I guess this mean … they are interfering with your money in some way. Distribution------- caring your drugs to one place to the next for you. Possession----------holding or getting caught with your drugs. Under the influence------ have anybody ever look at the damn word influence? Lets see…. the capacity or power of persons or things to be a compelling force on or produce effects on the actions, behavior, opinions, etc., of others: He used family influence to get the contract. They have eight more meaning to throw you off, but they are your influence by not stopping it. Let my people go!!! All this time you still cant find the big man, stop making money on our tax dollars for doing nothing, let my people go!!! I never seen you, charge them for making and growing drugs. Let my people go! They are victims and you are weak and scared Mr. Drug task force man. You are scared of …….MR. B I G! LET MY PEOPLE GO!!!!! Da Bishop (0) Comments

Posted: 5/7/2007 9:00:59 PM

LET THE TRUTH BE TOLD!!!!

As his voice filled the air along with the sound of his music; He carried in his right hand Da Book,.. now use it. What he had wrote, and what you may hear, will vision the way he spoke, and erase your fear. The Holy Spirit said, 'Fear not, I am the first and the last; I am the beginning and the end. Share the things that you have seen, write the words in how you feel and the things that are, and what was done. All the things that will be after; will have truth and understanding, to come. Direct Answer Bishop, Now that he has you attention he is about to guide you back to the Eternal Divine Path Verily, verily I say on to you, mean truth is truth I say on to you. Do you know the holy spirit said this in all the tongs of words to all the true prophets. Truth is truth mean if you feel or seek understanding then its true. You may not like what you hear, but it will be the truth. If you think you have a better path, then share it and I will listen and share it to others, otherwise keep your lies and misunderstandings to your damn self. I was ask the other day; “ Da bishop what religion are you?” I am not a fake!!! I write what I see and speak the truth on how I feel and I always will. I am all religions in one, just like I am a human being to all races. I think people are being racist if they are saying they are just a Baptist, Buddhism, Catholic, Christian , Muslim, Jehovah Witness, or Mormon. The holy spirit was all of them and told then all the same thing, which is the truth. What I mean, is everyone’s faith and praises should be the same will leave less confusions in this world. I can understand the rejoicing should be different because its the sound of music and music is the key of life. Example , the seven horns is the sound from voice and music. If you are a opera listener then you probably prefer Catholic churches to rejoice. Mormon and Jehovah, is more classical when I read the words. Christianity and Buddhism more towards pop and r&b. Muslim, because of peace I feel jazz when I read the words. Baptist, more hip hop and rock, because they bring the house down when they are rejoicing. If we can all praise together in harmony our faith will be as one. "The mystery of the seven stars which thou sawest in my right hand, and the seven golden candlesticks. The seven stars are the angels of the seven churches: and the seven candlesticks which thou sawest are the seven churches." (Revelation 1:20) This prophecy is referring to the seven stars in The Revelation. "The seven stars are the seven angels of the seven churches," relates to the Seven Seals that have now all been opened and revealed. Seven Stars are the angels who opened (revealed) these seals. Actually it is the same angel, The Only Begotten Son, who has come to earth in various times and places to open each of the Seven Seals and reveal the Eternal Divine Path. “ I did not come to change the laws of Abraham and Moses, I came to fulfill them” "And I saw the seven angels who stand before God . . ." (Revelation 8:2), and “… stood a Lamb as though it had been slain, having seven horns and seven eyes, which are the seven Spirits of God sent out into all the earth" (Revelation 5:6) The Seven Angels are the Seven Prophets which brought Seven Great Revelations to man. These Seven Angels bring the Revelations (Spirit Of God) to man and are One with this Spirit. So we can clearly see that the Seven Angels that stand before God in Rev. 8:2 and Rev. 1:20 are also called the Spirits of God (Rev. 5:6) and are in heaven (stand before God). In other words, they are Christ (John 3:13) and Christ is that Spirit. Secondly, these seven Spirits were sent out to all the earth (Rev. 5:6), and that is why Christ was to appear to humanity, at least, seven times in various places. Christ is to come to all the earth at least seven different times. Historically The Only Begotten Son of God has come to humanity as many of the “ . . . great Prophets and personalities" , including: Adam, Noah, Abraham, Moses, Buddha, Esa, (Jesus), Mohammad. I am not perfect! I am a human being, I do negative and positive things to live on this earth. The Supreme Being knows this of me, so why should I pretend or fake to be holy. The Holy Spirit is not a human being, so stop trying to be him. One of the biggest problems people have is trying to be or want something other then what they have which is themselves. That is why it is hard for them to see or understand the truth when is right in their face. My own parents was like that also, go to church to pretend to be holy, then come home and do what the pastor said was wrong. The pastor always had said watch what you ware in God’s house, when Adam and eve was put here naked. The pastor is a human being too, could you vision young girls with short skirts on sitting right in the front roll while he is preaching. Lol you will stand behind the pulpit too. First, if someone say to you God help them, ask them how? And listen to their story and you can feel him by there story if its true or not. People always quote from the bible and don’t explain because they don’t understand themselves. The laws and story of the holy bible is there for you to read not for any human being on this earth to read or quote it to you, so why do you take your bible to church and let someone else read to you. If you cant read, open your eyes around you and you will understand. He is with in you, you will understand when you read or vision life. You will no the truth and feel it when you read it yourself. Don’t skip around to verse to story. Holy is thy name! HOLY= HE ONLY LEFT YOU, BIBLE= BRIEF INSTRUCTION BEFORE LEAVIN EARTH. When I write, I write for you to understand with in me, and me to understand within you. Why I said I am closer to him then you are? Because he said don’t put no man before him. Therefore you should feel that you are closer to him then I am. I was baptized, three times in my life time by three different churches. The age of 7, 16, and 21. I didn’t find him, until I was home alone and read the bible and he found me……it was not the name Jesus, god, Allah or Buda. It was his only forgotten son the holy spirit . He is in you!!! Have you ever been to church and seen that one person or person’s get the holy ghost? The choir be jamming and they jump up and start dancing around all crazy. I couldn’t wait to get the church to see so much fun, I said I cant wait to feel the holy ghost. I waited and waited, so one night when I was at home after reading the bible I started listening to my music tapes and a song that I like came on. My siblings and I jumped up and said “ OOOWWEE that’s my song” and we was dancing and have fun with laughter. That feeling of hearing music that get you to move is the holy ghost, read your bible he said to be re-joyful. He was in Adam, Noah, Moses, Jesus, Buda, and Mohammad . Also, my faith tells me he was in Dr Martin Luther King. Why do I feel its true is because I feel him and understand. (truth is truth) I read the bible and what I read I already knew, because he told me on what I have seen. I can see the real truth. I also read others….and seen the truth, but no one told me and I never read it before but I always said and felt it. No understanding mean its not true. To wash away your sins is to understand. (‘humble yourself as a little child, in order for you to enter in the kingdom of heaven.”) The next question was ask; “ Da Bishop why are you having sex with out being married?” lol….this a good one but I will be real if you like it or not! Because its good and I like it and I’m good at it. If you are good at something why stop! Who said its wrong! You? I only have one person to answer to and that is the Supreme Being and he has not told me to stop! Nowhere its written that he said I am wrong for having sex. He did say I cant claim a woman to be my own with out marriage. "Marry women of your choice, two, or three, or four; but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one." "You will never be able to be fair and just among women (wives)...." Qur’an (4:129) If a man has more than one wife, he must treat them all in an equal manner, emotionally and financially. For example, he has to provide living accommodation for each of his wives. Women depend of a man’s wealth at that time and was not allowed to work. Now that woman is allowed to bring in income this can solve a lot of problems today. With multiple wives in the house hold cheating will be out and there will be someone always in the home to properly raise a child. Financially everything will be covered. I called this Kings and Queens. Since we are have more problems in marriages over cheating, and financial problems, I feel a women or a man can choose to interview and marry whom they choose to operate their house hold. Think about the finance that can accumulate if all parents in the house had fulltime and partime jobs. The bills will be no worries, you don’t have to pay for a babysitter and if the King or Queen gets injured they don’t have to depend on our government for a check. Everyone will have what they need, and the children in the house hold will get the attention they are looking for, including affordable vacations every summer. If death happened to come in the family its covered. The reason for multiple wives in back then was not to satisfy men’s desire and that's it, but for the welfare of the widows and the orphans of the wars. During war times, many women are unable to find husbands, and they might prefer to be a co-wife than no wife. Therefore polygyny is not a rule or an order but an exception. Many people are under the misconception that it is compulsory for a man to have more than one wife. Also allowing multiple marriages is useful in case a man's wife is sterilized and can't give him the chance of being a father; here he has the right to marry another wife, and leaving the choice to her whether she wants to continue being his wife if he marries another woman or not. However men are prohibited from cheating on their wives, meaning a man can't marry another woman without the knowledge of his wife. He should tell her, for she might refuse such situation, and in this case it's totally her right if she asked for divorce. When I see and feel understanding I can feel and see a solutions you might think is not right but on this earth it’s the truth. You have the right to complain about your life, but what are you trying to do about it. I just no my eyes has been open, and I don’t care how you feel about me, because I am living day by day and believe and understand in what I say. Da Bishop (1) Comments

Posted: 5/4/2007 6:07:45 PM

THE POWER OF A BLACK MAN'S LOVE

THE POWER OF A BLACK MANS LOVE When you have a conversation with a black man he will always mention things like, he would love to have that strong woman beside him to help him succeed in life. The first thing that woman tells that man is that she is that woman he is looking for and starts blabbing stories to him on how strong she is and how she don’t put up with any bullshit. That’s why I call this” THE POWER OF A BLACK MANS LOVE” This will automatically become a challenge to this black man. Why? Just to test to see how strong this woman can be. He knows to win her over he will have to find her mind, heart and soul. You have two types of black men, the young black men, which is your typical “baby boy” and the older black men, a mature black man. They both have that thug life in them but the mature black men knows when and how to bring his thug ness out. I am going to talk about the baby boy power of love first. BABY BOY The only way the baby boy will find his way to a woman’s mind is to straight up lie. He only thinks with his dick. He feels if he can just lie enough to just get into her panties and thug fuck the shit out of her, he will have her ass hook. The sex will do it, but not enough to completely win her over, especially if she is a caring woman. Baby boy now know he have to get to heart and in order to get to her heart he needs to get to the key first, so he makes her feel sorry for him. He makes her feel like a mother because he cant take care of himself. He has no job, living in moms house in the basement, no car, and he will wash and iron the same outfit around her just to complain. He will not ask her for shit at this time. He will wait for her to buy gifts for him first, so his yearly woman targets usually take place around Xmas or summertime. Once she buy’s him that first gift he will make his move to get to her heart. He would come around her angry for no reason. He would complain that he is tired of her buying his shit and he wants to get a job and buy his own shit. The next thing you know he is dropping her ass off at work and joy riding in her car for months and still no job. This is called the key of lust with fake trust, he have her car keys, her house key and the key to the door to her heart. To open up that door to her heart he have to keep her in the spotlight. When he picks her up from work he will have his boy with him and complement the hell out of her like, : “how was your day boo?” And kiss her and don’t care who’s watching and say out loud to his friend “ hey dogg I’m about to drop your ass off and spend time with my girl.” Now, she thinking damn he is being so loving and sexy to me and he looking good. Now baby boy will put the icing on the cake. He will ask her “ who was dude that came out the door before you at your job.” and she will say “ he is no one, why?” he looks at her and smile and say “don’t let me fuck you up” in a funny and sexy way. Women loves when a man show a little jealousy when its back up with a sexy smile followed by a joke. Baby boy now have her mind body and soul. The shit he is doing is only temporary, lying to get the mind will fold with in time. That’s when the mind games come in and the relationship come to a end. The woman is the one that get hurt because of all the shit she did for him, but she is more pissed because he moved up in the world with another woman. Baby boy will not ever walk again, if his game is tight the next woman will buy him his own car and it will go on and on from there. Women gets mad at the black man and starts telling people he’s no good and a dogg. If you remember he told her at the beginning that he wants a strong woman by his side to help him succeed in life, he never said she was going to succeed with him. I a matter a fact, he might leave her with a child just to slow her ass down and make it harder for the next man that comes into her life. SO NOW SHE THINK SHE KNOW A BLACK MAN AND WILL NEVER FALL FOR THAT SHIT AGAIN! WRONG!!!!! NOW HERE COME THE MATURE BLACK MAN LOVE. A MATURE BLACK MAN A mature black mans love is very unpredictable. The best way he will find a way to a woman mind is to have his ass a job. He will learn how to adjust his ways differently when it comes to meeting a caring educated woman with securities. What makes his love so powerful is when he shares his sensitivity of actually caring for another living thing other then just a woman. Anytime a man revels the sensitive side of him to a woman, it will make her feel like that special someone that is in his life. This is when a matured black man quickly earns he key, he don’t waste anytime, either the woman accept him or don’t. he don’t get the lust key like baby boy got, but he earns the trust keys with honors and has his own copies. He will keep her keys as a secondary, he will take her car to get the oil change or just be that hero if she lock her damn keys in her car. In reality he can drive her car anytime he wants. That is funny you never hardly ever hear or see a woman driving a black man’s car. Once he earns that trust key he uses it to open the door to her heart by bringing out his sense of humor. Black men in general has this gift of saying or doing something unexpected that will tickle a woman’s funny bone in a way she will always remember. A mature black man will take advantage of this situation just at the right time…….like after sex. As soon as he finish doing his thug thing and put her down with satisfaction, he just might jump his ass up out of the bed butt naked and do the freaky dance called the “swing and hang“. When a mature black man mix sensitivity and humor together with sex he will open the door to a woman’s heart. If this relationship failed to proceed, this will really make a woman even stronger or independently wise and very powerful to proceed on with her life with or without a man. A mature man can see this in a woman’s eyes, she had experiences of her lies , lust, laughs and love in her life time. The only way he can get to her mind is by drugs or alcohol, but now that’s becoming to be old news. Woman was kind of weak back then, but I know 75% of it was the power of the love from a black man that made them strong and independent today. A mature black man can become Mr. Hubby, that ideal black man of perfection. Meaning he is tired of the game playing and just want to be loved. Sometimes a woman might luck up and meet Mr. Nice guy, shy, low self-esteem but aggressive, and allowed himself to be controlled. Women need to be real careful engaging a relationship with a man a this stage, not saying he's a bad person but he can be dangerous if he gets hurt. A man who has not experience his power of seducing a woman is a man who unsure of his actions and subject to abuse that woman. TO SHARE A WOMAN’S MIND IS TO HAVE UNDERSTANDING, TO SHARE A WOMAN’S HEART IS TO CARE, TO SHARE A WOMAN’S SOUL IS TO MAKE HER FEEL GOOD ANYTIME AND ANYWHERE. Da Bishop (1) Comments

Posted: 4/27/2007 8:12:07 AM

WHY ITS HARD FOR ME TO BELIEVE IN YOU ? CONTINUE!!!

I NEVER SAID I DON’T BELIEVE IN GOD, I HAVE MY FAITH, BUT I JUST DON’T BELIEVE PEOPLE AND THE THINGS THEY SAY GOD SAID! 1) GOD SAID “ WE ARE NOT TO MIX RACES” I thought we all were human beings. 2) GOD SAID “ BITCH, SHIT, AND FUCK ARE BAD WORDS” Aren’t these words spoken in English? Traditional Jewish exegesis such as Midrash (Genesis Rabbah 38) assumes that Adam spoke Hebrew because the names he gives Eve - "Isha" (Genesis 2:23) and "Chava" (Genesis 3:20) - only make sense in Hebrew ("Isha" is from "Ish", man, and "Chava" is from "Chai", life). It is, however, unclear how much from the Biblical perspective this language was preserved by Adam's descendants until the confusion of tongues (Genesis 11:1-9), or that it began to evolve naturally (Genesis 10:5). There is no ancient claim that the Adamic language was identical to Biblical Hebrew, for "the Torah was written in the vernacular" of the Israelites (Talmud Sanhedrin 21b). Dante in the Divina commedia implies that the language of Paradise was different from later Hebrew by saying that Adam addressed God as I rather than El. Some Early Modern scholars based on Genesis 10:5 have assumed that the Japhetite languages are rather the direct descendants of the Adamic language, having separated before the confusion of tongues, by which also Hebrew was affected. The same is claimed by Anne Catherine Emmerich, that stated in her private revelations that most direct descendants of the Adamic language were Bactrian, Zend and Indian languages. In this way Emmerich identifies Adamic language as Proto-Indo-European language. 3) GOD SAID “ WE MUST GIVE 10% OF OUR EARNINGS TO THE CHURCH” I don’t mind giving or donating some of my earnings to charity or to the church for good cause, but I don’t think its fair or believe its right to say God actually said or put a value on how much you are to give. Seriously, I would love to be the pastor of the church that Donald Trump attends 10% of his earnings is a lump sum. I thought Jesus said “ the love of money is the route of all evil” I see many people on TV shows portraying so much hatred and quote scriptures from the bible saying God said this, and God said that, and if we don’t follow their wordings we will go to hell. The way they were talking and the attitude they portrayed made me feel like I was already in hell. Just to hear them say it in that tone of voice, I felt something was wrong, and if its wrong they cannot be right. If God is the same Supreme Being that created me as a Human Being then my faith deep in my soul feel’s they must have misunderstood his wordings. They need to seek understanding before quoting any scriptures from the bible that has been revised repeatedly from another human being. I truly understand life clearly now as an adult that has been living through the conflicts and confusions we share to see in our everyday life. As a child I can see and feel the pain in rebellion of disbelief they seem to contribute to society. Some people act shocked when a person may say they don’t believe in God, but understand why people don’t believe in the system. English is a language that has many meanings to one word and the system has many charges to one crime. In reality they are both control by man, so when a person say’s they don’t believe in God, they are really saying they don’t believe in man. For example, you lie from what you learn, that’s man, and you cry for what you feel, that’s God. The Supreme Being do not personally have to speak to you on what was written. Your soul will make you feel his true words that was spoken for you to understand in all languages. Now that is FAITH, TRUTH IS TRUTH. Da Bishop (1) Comments

Posted: 4/19/2007 6:37:08 PM

WHY ITS HARD FOR ME TO BELIEVE IN YOU ?

Why its hard to believe in you? When I was brought up as a child, I was taught to believe in things that happens in my life that I didn’t understand. The first time my tooth came out I was told if I leave it under the pillow a Tooth Fairy will leave me a quarter for my tooth. The very next day there was a quarter laying under my pillow in place of my tooth. As a child I was amazed and had hopes with blessings and dreams of miracles can actually happen in this world. A real Fairy Angel like being that I can pray upon to protect me when I am down and out or in danger. ( later I found out she was not true) On Easter my mom took my siblings and I out to the store to purchase new outfits for Easter Sunday. I was told if you leave pretty colored eggs for the Easter Bunny he will collect them and leave you candy around the house in a egg shell to hunt for, and if you are real good in church he might leave you a Easter Basket with goodies and gifts. The very next day after church the Easter Bunny left candy all around the house we had to hunt for it and I got a big basket with toys and candy in it. As a child I was amazed and had hopes with blessings and dreams of miracles can actually happen in this world. A real Easter Bunny that I can call upon if I get lost, down and out or in danger. ( later I found out he was not true) On Christmas I was told if I am good all year, I can leave a list of things I want for Santa Claus and he will leave it under the tree for me as a gift. Again, what I was told became true, on Christmas day I got gifts from Santa. As a child I was amazed and had hopes with blessings and dreams of miracles can actually happen in this world. A real person called Santa Claus with flying reindeer that can come down and comfort me when I am down and out or in danger. (later I found out the he was not true) What was true was on Halloween if you dress up in a custom and knock on doors, people will give you free snacks or a trick. On Thanks giving there will be food, fruit, pie and cake for you to eat. On New Year, we celebrate a new year. Also , there are some people you can trust in this world and there are some you just don’t! When I was a little child I was taught that God is always watching me and he will protect me when bad things happens, you must pray to him everyday. As a child I was amazed and had hopes with blessings and dreams of miracles can actually happen in this world. A group of us neighborhood kids got together on a very hot Sunday and we wanted to go swimming. The public parks swimming pools was closed on Sundays. We always find a way to get in and swim anyways, but this time it was different. My mom made me take my little brother with me, I hated when my little brother wants to follow me all the time, so I ignored him like he wasn’t even there. We all got to the park and climb over the fence. My little brother was calling me to help him over the fence, but again I ignored him like he wasn’t even there. One of the other kids said I shouldn’t treat my little brother like that, of course it was a kid who didn’t have a little brother, so he went to help him over the fence. Just to remind you we all was very young and was scared of 12 feet. The deepest we all had ever gone was 5 feet. We was in the swimming pool for at least 3 hours. More kids in the neighborhood had hopped the fence and was running around throwing water on each other it was fun, the swimming pool got packed. All of the sudden we heard a scream and a splash down by the deep end. We all ran down there to see what happened or to see which one of us had the guts to jump in deep water. When I got down to the deep end I saw that It was my brother. He had slipped while running around the pool. He had his hands up reaching for someone to help him. I remembered what they said to me in church, God is always watching and he will protect you. So I was waiting on God to save my little brother, but my little was going deeper and deeper. I thought about the Tooth Fairy, Easter Bunny, and Santa, then looked up and everyone was looking at me. I said out loud ,“God if you wont save my brother then save me!” I jumped in 12 feet of water which I have never been before and saw my little brother standing at the bottom of the pool looking right at me. I grabbed him and we went right back up to the surface. He was fine…..people outside the pool was clapping… my bother was holding his breath all that time he was in the water. I was not afraid of 12 feet anymore, my little brother was not either. I was the first kid in our neighborhood that can swim the whole length of the swimming pool underwater to the end and back, and my best friend, my little brother was the youngest kid that can do the same. TO: ALLAH, BUDA, JESUS AND GOD; PLEASE DON’T BLAME ME IF I HAVE A HARDTIME BELIEVING YOU, BUT I HAVE BEEN KEEPING MY FAITH EVERDAY, ONEDAY YOU WILL SEND THE RIGHT PERSON TO SHARE WHAT YOU SAY. THE TRUTH IS THE TRUTH, Da bishop (1) Comments

Posted: 4/17/2007 9:39:44 PM

IMUS IN THE WARNING!!!!

IMUS IN THE WARNING!!!! If you can communicate with others without selling yourself out people can hear what you are truly trying to say. To entertain is to be amused with information or filled out with emotions by telling a story. The emotional comments you speak should be spoken with understanding. Explaining why it was said brings out the reality of the comment or story that was told. Rap artist, comedians, movies and TV shows, explains all emotional comments that may have been said by the way the story is told to entertain the viewers or listeners. If it’s a joke they will say it as a joke or put it in a joking way, therefore people will understand it to be a joke. If they are reacting a story of their life or someone else’s, they will tell you about what really happened in that life and how it was spoken. This is not a direct put down to anyone if its your life and your story filled with your own emotional reaction and comments. Talk shows, radio, and news broadcasters are entertainments of information, sometime using their sense of humor of opinionated statements. In this entertainment field you have to maintain your media personality. Meaning watch what you say! If not you will start a controversy of what was spoken without understanding. In the Imus situation, by watching the media reaction I heard some people commenting on the explicit words used by other entertainers as if it was the same way as Imus used it himself. That’s not true!!! Please don’t not blend a racial comment with a emotional comment. If the same words was used on the Simpson by Homer with the creative story behind it, we would all think it was funny. We all know Homer Simpson by now and all the dumb things he might say or do, but we as a human being wouldn’t do or say it ourselves. The reason why people are still talking about it is because Imus left that comment opened for further discussions. Calling them hoes, is not his standard way of communication about females. It was a shock to everyone that he used that word. Calling them nappy headed made it racial. He didn’t closed it! Apologizing for what was said do not explain why it was said. Imus himself needs to explain, what made him say what he said? And why he choose to say it on the air? Is not hard to communicate with others for the choices you choose to make, its just hard for you to be honest and tell the truth and stand behind what was spoken. Da Bishop (1) Comments

Posted: 4/16/2007 11:45:05 AM

WE ARE NOT MONKEY'S!! WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS

I’m not a monkey! You can be one if you want too. Explain this, if that was so true and you actually believe that you are a monkey; in the past decades why aren’t monkey’s evolving in to human beings to day? If I decide to go back to the same damn zoo when I first saw a monkey the age of 3, would I see a human being in the cage? Seriously, would I see a monkey sitting a the dinner table eating fried chicken or noodles with a fork talking about how his day went? You have been program to believed in a theory that cannot be proven. Shit, if that was case when human beings need blood we can just go catch a monkey! The form of trick zoology you have been. You must love that movie planet of the apes. WE ARE NOT MONKEY'S!! THERE ARE SOME HUMAN BEINGS THAT CAN ACT LIKE MONKEY'S. iF YOU KEEP SAYING THAT WATCH SOME SICK PERSON TRY TO MATE WITH AN APE. Da Bishop (0) Comments

Posted: 3/11/2007 4:46:38 PM

TIME 2 THINK***************

YOU WANNA KNOW???????????? I will never say, write or think, that I am wiser then another Human Being, nor has I said , wrote or thought to be better then the…. I really understand …. Understand higher then what he or she may think of themselves. I want you to feel the same way when you write, speak, or think about me. Every time I write, or have written, speak or has spoken , I had shared the visions of what he or she already had known, seen, or heard in this life. I just communicate it easier in words that life leads you to understand. I believe in myself and have the faith in the time of what I have learned from you and others that have lived or live in this garden that we call earth. They say we only use 10% of our brain and that’s true, because that’s all we need use to visualize the understanding of our life. You see, the 10% is the function, the power, and control panel of our brain and the rest is the machines and equipments that keeps it running. The brain is the energy, an organ of the body, and the mind is the mother board, the memory, the program director of the brain. So, consequently , we used 10% of our brain, and we need to program and operate the 100% of our mind. Doctors and lawyers earn their degrees with in years that can only take weeks or month. There are so much input your mind will take at a time, but your memory gets the credit as much as you perform. A doctor becomes a doctor when he runs test or do research, and a lawyer become a lawyer when he investigate or do research. Any way it goes, if we continue to educate minds we will understand this life. That’s why some people are having so many problems when it comes down to drugs and alcohol. They’re mind gets flooded with so much unexplained information which makes them confused. Growing up in this society you are bound to get curious on what all this fuss is about, whether you are a doctor, lawyer, or President of a country. When you do, you say to yourself “ I’m better and stronger then the others I wont get hook and act like that.” Wrong! You are not better! You may not react the same way they do, but you will react. Do you think you are better because you never did drugs? Are you afraid of what may happen if you do? Or, Are you afraid of what others may think of you if you do it? This is something a human being wont worry about when they are educated the right way on how the mind works. People make there own choices in life and they will make the same choice until they get tired, bored, sick, broke, or just hit rock bottom. I see the media or court TV called people a crack head all the time like it’s a word in the dictionary. A young man robbed a convenient store to retrieved money to purchase drugs, $167.00, They called him a crack head. A gentleman robbed this company he was working for over 150,000.00, they said he was on drugs and needed help. So I guess you have to be broke enough and down and out to be named a crack head. You will never know some people do drugs because they have learned the drugs and know how to act. Look at doctor house on that TV show House……lol he is popping pills 3 times within the hour that movie is on, but is he a crack head or a great doctor. Drugs is drugs no matter how you put it, whether it is in a pill form, powdered, plant or liquid. If you need it to function you are addicted. You have program your mind to believe that you need this drug because of the daily use of it. When you shut down the program the mind gets confused and the brain will send signals to the body to ache or act out. The memory board of the mind kicks in because of the pain or urge, and you must find a way to get more drugs with out thinking of the consequences. This only happens when your mind gets confused. Why? In the drug world you have your uppers, downers, hypnosis state. The uppers fast forward your vision of life without thought; you will see, talk, hear, or think about things without thinking, and if taking on a everyday abuse your mind will become unstapled. The downers slows down your vision of life with a thought, but you tends to forget about what you thought of, because of the urge of getting more, and if taking on a everyday abuse it will be painful to your body. The hypnosis rewinds, fast forward, and slows down your input program all together, if taken on a everyday abuse you will be stuck in your own world and forget what world you are in. I told this 15years ago to this one dude, and he actually was listening to me. I talk to him the other day and he said …”man you know it was because of you, I never got hook on drugs out there bad, I could have been hook on blows, but when you told me that story; when I got that urge, I took a upper, a downer, and a blunt and I was straight! I spent less money and paid my bills and kept myself up for 2years. After that I just have me a drink now and then and I can be around drugs and turn it down like it was some nasty ass food,…lol and I have been on my same job for 20 years.” I never thought he was listening to me because he was high when I told him that, but he said every time he was to get high he heard my damn voice. These effects of confusing your mind don’t happened on a first try, it happens when you become a abuser of them. Why do people abuse the drugs? Likeness, acceptance, and assess to. Likeness, some people just like the way it makes them feel at the time of using. Acceptance, some people tends to feel wanted by other users and have a good communication session when using. Assess to, ….lol easy assess baby, you can be a seller, user, or buyer when you can get for yourself or someone else you will abuse your privileges. Some people may say they did drugs because they was depressed ,upset, or abused ,that may have been the trigger to use the drug, but not the abuse of using it. What I am saying is; Educate your mind to 100% usage don’t let nothing slow you down. Its not over until you can no longer think for yourselves. Da Bishop Group URL: http://groups.myspace.com/askdabishop (0) Comments

Posted: 3/11/2007 2:26:44 AM

WAKE UP!

Only a true person can hear or see, The words I'm saying without standing near me. Are you awake or are you sleep? There was no mistakes in life, just the choice that you made. Some of you may have children, Remember that day you wanted to get laid? Society have rules of living that are set for you, When you break them, don't mistake them, Someone else did it to. There is no secrets of life to ease your pain, Society learns everything we do, so stop doing the same thing. Humble what you do don't be ashamed, You control what happens next, Hey, why should we complain? The game is something you do and what you say, When, where, why, and how its played. There is no book, day to day its in your mind, Life is the strategy, just give it time. Growing up in life may be a struggle, there's always someone out there that's in trouble. Shared your experience with them, And watch what they do, age doesn't matter its what they going through. Looking back on what you been through Your knowledge could of be deep, You are not dumb, slow, or stupid Wake up! You sleep! Da Bishop (0) Comments

Posted: 2/23/2007 6:12:03 PM

Dont run away child

Sometimes the choices you make in your life visions you may not understand why....but once you live it you will see why you cry. You may get angry and run from your path, think that it might get easy, but how long would that last. If its hard for you now watch how hard it would be when you run. what would you be running from the night is the moon and daylight here comes the sun. What I am saying if you can deal with it now! if you cant then take the long road your parents can show you how. They took that road already thats why they do what they do, the only vision they have now is to live their life to protect you. Da Bishop (0) Comments

Posted: 2/23/2007 6:10:24 PM

UNDERSTANDING LOVE 2007 (PART 2)

I had to respond to some questions about my, UNDERSTANDING LOVE 2007. Some people are still stuck on level one in their own life stage, or still down and hurt for being cheat upon had took what I wrote as I was saying its ok to cheat. (WAKE UP PEOPLE !) What I was saying is, what happened to faithfulness? We are so worried about the other person faith and we cant assure the faith within ourselves. We must first love ourselves before we can love another. Loving ourselves also come with understanding and forgiveness. If you cant forgive then understand why? If you cant understand then don't forgive. What you don't do is destroy your own faith for anyone. Sex can destroy your faith in someone else but it should not affect the faith you have in yourself. You also chose this person to be your partner for life with your faith in he or she.If cheating destroys that relationship, then its time to bring in your faith. If it hurts you so bad let he and she go! But you wont get over it because you took the easy way out! When its time for your next relationship you will have trust issues and I don't think its fair for that next person to go through that shit that you left undone. Some of you shut down, don't want a relationship at all or feel its ok to hook up with a same sex person that has been through the same shit. People same sex person, are people too! Stop being a weak pussy let your faith come in WORK IT OUT DAMIT ! that's what you pledge to do. Maybe your love was stronger then that other person. That doesn't mean that person didn't love you, it means your are the one that suppose bring the faith in that relationship….teach them. You may see some older couples together for 50 years …Do you think they didn't have problems with in those years? They did, but when you ask them how they do it , they may look at you and say true love or time. Some people find their true love down the road, but people today thinks true love is when you fist hookup or get married. Sometimes we pick it up late because the sex keep getting thrown at us from others that say they can make our life better then the one we are with. Some people would keep jumping to relationship to relationship until they get old then they will say thay found true love, lol…shit,... yall just tired. So sex is sex and love is love. Don't let sex destroy your relationship somewhere down the road that love will grow stronger and it will be beautiful.( YOU MUST HUMBLE YOURSELF AS A LITTLE CHILD IN ORDER FOR YOU TO ENTER IN TO THE KINDOM OF HEAVEN) If you and the other person truly feels that you are the right person for each other, then help each other over that hill and stop taking the easy way out. Da bishop (0) Comments

Posted: 2/23/2007 6:09:30 PM

Understanding love for 2007

Understanding love for 2007 In the past years a man or a women can handle as many relationships as they want as long as he/she can lie good and afford them, but one human being can be broke and fuck the world, with love and understanding and end up with everything he or she wants. Its not hard for you to love its hard for you to be loved. For the last 20years we have been building our love structure on our sexual preferences. That's why we have more marriages and relationships ending with hurt and pain with no shame. We don't know or understand the term" for better or for worst", but we damn sure know what the hell cheating and untrustworthy are! Can you feel me now? The past years our relationships have been about sex. Yes we care, yes we like, and yes we will respect the relationship, But let them cheat on us one time, we wont trust them. Lets look at the word cheating, it means dishonest, sneaky or trying to get around something that has regulation. Well Damn! We all do this everyday! So what we are really piss off about is the sex. Some people might say this ridiculous statement" no, it's the time we have together that he or she is giving to someone else not just the sex", wake the hell up people….it's the sex! Woman spend time with her girls and men spend time with his boys as long as no sex is involve there was no argument. The sex situation is getting so bad in our relationships now, that men cant go out with his boys and women cant go out with the girls because he or she might think they are fucking each other. it's the sex! We must all realized that we are all bi-lovable, and learn to share our love with one another and stop claiming love for each other. Face it some of you will say you love someone because you cant stand to see anyone else having sex with then. Men will let thier girl go out with a sissy, but not a real man, but women , they don't give a fuck who they are…you can be fucking them too…lol So if you are in love stay in love don't let sex break up true love. Da Bishop (1) Comments

Posted: 2/23/2007 6:07:14 PM

LIFE VISIONS OF FRIENDS

LIFE VISIONS OF FRIENDS I see Da bishop have to educate some people with the word of wisdom for today: when one is lonely only happy thoughts, true feelings of helpful intension is all that matters. When you are being talked down to its makes me wonder if your friendship can be true. If your intension was to restore my smiles of happiness when I am down on my luck, then maybe you are at the bottom and I am there to pick you up. what do you consider to be a good friend? Well, we know what most people might say..(1) someone you can talk to (2) someone who's there for you in the time of need (3) someone who likes to do some of the things I like to do. ok, lets look at Da Bishop's life visions: (1) If I was your friend and I was not there to talk to you when you needed me to. Would you still be my friend? (2) If I was your friend and you just had a lost in your family, and I didn't make it there to comfort you...would you still be my friend? (3) If I was your friend and I don't like shit you do...would you still be my friend? This is my life vision of friends: someone who can make me laugh at times...some one that I can go out with at times and just have some fun.....and anyone who don't put me down. We don't have to hang out all the time but if we both do have the time then lets have some fun. You don't have to agree or like some of the things I do but just accept me for who I am and what I do. Please don't become my parent! If I am doing something wrong its ok to tell me your concerns but do get piss when I do it. We can not hold our friends responsible for our needs and wants. if you do then you need to be alone. If we stop holding our friends with so much responsibilities we would have more....friends like to have friends to be happy and free at times, so lets your friends be your friends not a peace of property to hold accountable when it breaks down. Well, number one...honesty. A good friend is someone who isn't going to sugar coat things just to make you feel better. They are going to be truthful, even if it's not what you want to hear. They are always going to be there for you no matter what day or time. A good friend is somebody you can laugh with, have fun with, be yourself around. I think as we get older we have all went through friends. Some we are still down with and other that we just closed that door too. I know I have had my share. I think as a friend they shouldn't judge a person , if you drink ... so what you drink, if you smoke.. so what you smoke. I have had people say being around them kind of negative influences just bring a person down. I would have to disagree, You are not twisting nobodies arms to do anything. Everybody has a mind of their own. So what is my definition of a friend... someone who can be REAL WIT ME and be themselves wit out all the petty shit. I know I'm not perfect and I sure am not expecting you to be either. JUST REMEMBER THIS: When you are sad, I will help you get drunk and plot revenge against the sorry bastard who made you sad. When you are blue, I will try to dislodge whatever is choking you. When you smile, I will know you finally got laid. When you are scared, I will rag on you about it every chance I get to help u get over it. When you are worried, I will tell you horrible stories about how much worse it could be until you quit whining. When you are confused, I will use little words because you already fucked up. When you are sick, Stay the hell away from me until you are well again. I don't want whatever you have. When you fall, I will point and laugh at your clumsy ass. Slick, quick, fun, not retarded, slow, bored Da Bishop (0) Comments

Posted: 2/23/2007 6:05:57 PM

UNDERSTANDING LIFE, VISION 1

UNDERSTANDING LIFE, VISION 1 Current mood: awake Should you be in your smart times now becoming a woman or a man other then wondering how others feel? If you are treating your partner right and you are confused on how he or she feels, then sorry to tell you, you are doing something wrong. Wrong not being the way you treat him or her, but wrong for feeling beneath him or her. A strong person in life can sense insecurity in a person. The way to hide your insecurity is to find and believe in yourself. If you feel the person you with maybe doing something wrong, then smile at him or her and say "is there anything you want me to do for you other then what I've not been doing?" Relationships do not mean happy life for ever, you have your down falls. In a relationship you have to learn how to work it out with out anger. You have to remember that you are not the only one going through this unhappiness. That's why people tense to connect with each other because they have been hurt or been through the same situation. Lets think about this for a second……. You think connecting with others that has been hurt like you have is good and you have a better chance in have a better relationship. WRONG! You both got out or gave up on a relationship on the same level and you never found the way on how to work out your problem. DEAL WITH IT!…. The grass in not greener on the other side whether its male or female we all are human beings, so we all think alike… Our biggest fear of life is that we are afraid of being alone. Just concentrate on yourself right now, you will get stronger and you will get what you need out of life one day. That is why me myself doesn't search anymore it will come and always has, I'm not quick to get involve in relationships, or I will be stuck in a relationship I DONT WANT! Love cant turn to lust , love turns to passion. On the other hand lust can turn in to a sexual relationship, or the passion of being with someone. You never leave the one you love for the one you like, you will be going backwards. Love is the top dog it has like, lust, caring, trust, and passion. Our likes, lust, caring and passion is very easy to us, but our trust seem harder to understand. Its because we seem to accept the person to whom is available at the time and intake their feeling upon us. Then we find ourselves in a relationship build on caring. Now this sometimes can get to the 100% love effects but it rarely happens. You might meet the person you would give your life for and if that happened that's not lust, people our days called it true love.....but you must know this for sure. That's why I always take my time until true love come. I'm not leaving my relationship for lust, love or all of the above, only for true love. Not to say i don't get mine...LOL I get my satisfaction but with honesty that's the only way I can find my true love. I think the other person will understand only if its true love. If the other person wont , sorry that's on him or her....it shouldn't come to a shock to them, because you should tell them everyday. ONEDAY I WILL BE GONE, YES I DO CARE BUT ONEDAY I WILL BE GONE. ARE YOU FEELING ME? AM I TALKING TOO MUCH? OK JUST LISTEN SOME MORE THEN YOU WILL BE READY TO TALK TO ME...... YOU MUST FISRT MAKE YOUSELF BECOME STRONGER THAN YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP, WHICH WAS A LEARNING EXPERIENCE ANYWAY FROM HIM OR HER MAKING YOU FEEL LIKE SHIT! Making yourself stronger simply means don't worry what others think right now you in your own world, so get with it. You will find that people will accept you for who you are, and what makes you happy, because that's all you will accept. This way you will sort out what is a relationship and what's not. When you care more for yourself you will trust your own judgment and you will never feel a break up the way you did before. You will be like" watch out yall I'm free again...lol" I KNOW YOU LIKE WHO THE HELL IS THIS! ITS ME DA BISHOP...SHHHHH JUST LISTEN, You must learn how to respond to its emotional behaviors reactions by supporting the wisdom of understanding, day by day knowledge of Will Da Bishop true visions of life. Any person who may thrive on their fears, jealousy, or lies, will always experience unexpected suffering of hate, pain and rage carve deeply in his/her inner soul. No one is perfect in dealing with these type of emotional feelings. Apologizing for this uncontrollable emotional reactions is not the right thing to do. Backup your emotions no matter how many negative feed backs you may have received. Don't place blame, complain or argue, just paint the picture of what happen one time to be polite because you already dominated the conversation just for being life educated. Second times to communicate briefly explaining the basic facts. Third time educate and share the message of life's vision. Stay consistent, if the incident happens again role-play the emotional reaction exactly the same way you reacted before but with pride, confidents, and perfection. Over your growing up years of life to about the age of 25, you should have learned most of your emotional reactions with the ability to Understand, support, and communication. Never neglect or ignore your emotional feelings for anyone. Using your unexpected emotions, the emotional reaction can over power ones self control decisions in a heart beat. understanding the emotional reactions is when; hurt words, we once spoke before came back to you unsaid. No one should correct your choices you make but you. Therefore we should not judge or complain or promise to change others emotional reactions or decision. Never lie to one another just to ease ones feelings and never accept a lie to redeem your relationship. Understanding why the lie was told is more important then the lie itself. OK, I KNOW YOU READY TO TALK TO ME NOW, BUT I GOT TO SAY THIS: If you live in the past you will never see the future. What I am saying accept what you and he/she had done as a understanding of life, and someone other then you and he/she had made that same choice and went though what your are going through now. This is a circle of life! sorry to tell you but it happens everyday. People need to accept what they done and not put it as a mistake because you are not owning up for what you have lived. If you cheated and he or she cheated its not a mistake, sorry. You both got something out of it and now you regret it and NOW you want to called it a mistake. Its the same as when some people say their child was a mistake, If its not rape then its not a mistake its a choice, so don't regret what you done move on, you did good. If its love then moving on is not hard when you accept the choice you or he/she made with out regrets. If you don't accept that as a choice of making with no guilt, its a chance you or he/she might do it again. Don't be confused, now stay focus. The first thing is not to change, adjust your habits. Only for yourself not for anyone else. I know that may sound selfish but, if you don't agree what the other person had said, then don't delete your ways. You have to understand you have years of growing up beneath you. The way you act reflects on the way you choose to grow up. You can adjust your ways when you go to church, you can adjust your ways when you go to work. On the other hand, never change, just adjust. As far as physical appearance hey we all have our own thoughts and visions on how we want to look but just make sure you are doing it for yourself. We can always change our appearance, but we need to adjust our ways. If anyone thinks by changing their appearance's will make their relationship better is wrong. Its your attitude on communication that makes a good relationship. My opinion on that's thought, yes a great body on a female attracts me but a remarkable attitude will have me to fall in love. 5 years ago I thought the same thing until I realized that I will never reach my goal because it changes as I go. Reaching my goal feels like the end of my life to me, and I have a long life to live so that's a long way to go. What I really wanted was a strong woman by my side to keep me focus on my vision on what I will shared with her. Vision is the word I use now instead of goals. Vision is never ending. In my research a good successful man always had a strong educated woman behind him. On the other hand if that woman is not in my life, I will talk to other people such as yourself to keep my life focus on my vision. Giving up Nah, life wont let you give up. You will just take a longer path and find yourself back to the main road you walk off from. No, life doesn't get better. I dont know who said that! life just get easier to understand because the same shit happens over and over again maybe not to you but to others around you. You sometimes get into a jam and think that its the end. A few months or years later you in it again, and say this is deferent? no its the same and you always live the next day to talk about it ...so why worry a problem that will become your past Now if I'd bored you, fuck what I'd said, you still are asleep, and maybe one day you will wake up. If I caught your attention then maybe we can become friends and learn each other thoughts. Da Bishop (0) Comments

Posted: 2/23/2007 6:04:46 PM

Understanding Life Vision (two)

I posted the Understanding Life Vision Level (one ) for a good reason because there is more to come. Understanding Life Vision (two) Woman this level you might not like so much but it's the truth. Now I'm about to bring you to the level where the men are and how they think on relationships. Level two: The level of survival. Man do what they do to survive because the woman's affections and pleasure can be a hustle good to them. There are other man out here in this world , and if they learn how to hustle affection, that man may feel threaten on his time of pleasure. Not by another man , hell no, but by the way his woman might feel the very next day. ( everyday woman becomes a prey for someone) Woman complain sometimes on things that didn't happened yet to a man. Man cant see this shit coming because it takes one woman to say one thing and that's another damn new version of a woman affection he has to learn. Men like the new shit to be easy and understanding so when its all over he's always on top. The king, The dog, The pimp, The shit! Not no knew shit he have to think on , like question like; Will you still love me if we never had sex? Man…lol I laugh the other day when I read that, dude , don't answer that shit! trust me. If you say no it's a argument, if you say yes , its gone be a lie. Just tell , baby you shouldn't mix love and sex together in a sentence, smile walk away and let her think.. The next question that was asked? Did you forget to do something today? What its 11pm you want me to go all the way back on my day when I got up this morning to go to work came home at 6:30pm and spend time with my family and just finish making love to you, and now you telling me its something I forgot to do somewhere in this day. Baby please, complete the sentence and tell me, because your ass just remembered yourself. Woman remembers everything you say also, so your ass better remember every step. Also learn how to answer them correctly and stop the little simple lies, that is what they wrote down and try to make you say everyday just to see if you lie about it. I mean silly shit like, When you said you went out that day…baby ill be back I'm going to run to the store and grab me a coke. Then all of sudden she give you this look like your ass should make you some Kool-Aid. That's that damn look like be prepared when you get back. Course you don't se it, you walk in the damn door 35min latter which it only takes you 5 min to go to Mimi mart down the street with a damn mountain dew. She jumps right in your face and said you lied to me you said you was got to grab a coke. Lol…You said she trippin…lol wake up dude, that's that little lie I was talking about. You just been timed. She not going to tell you, that's her weapon for when you try to leave next time, not happening , If you think about walking your ass out the door in the near future she will drop the bomb on you ass. I did say near, because it wont take you long to do something silly like that again. If you remember before your lady let you go out shopping on you own, she went with your ass first. Yall went to wall mart and she stop at some little baby's clothes and you asked her why are we over here are we expecting a child or something ? She said no , I just thought it was a nice color…lol she's testing your patience to see how long you ass can stay in wal mart. Dude again you have been timed. Every place you guys went the same thing happened ,she timed your ass. Now you can go out on your own. This time you grab your keys and didn't say anything because you feel if nothing said , she cant catch you in one of those lil lies. She jumps up and asked you this time " where you going boo" You tells her you going to look at some rims….lol She said.. ok, pick me up a pack of cigs on your way back. Dude you have been timed…lol Then you forgot her cigs….lol she trick your ass in the lil lie this time…..lol You missed the sign earlier. After you lied the first time no woman is going to let you , grab your keys, and walk out that door with out telling her where you going and call you boo….lol Dude you have been timed. Learn the right words to say, talk to your woman everyday, its not hard. She thinks you a stupid doggy now. Be that stupid dog then, be Scooby…lol that next time you grab your keys and about to walk out that door and she ask you where you going? Idontno, she think you dumb anyway, but say it in the right way, " I don't know, but I promise I will tell you all about it when I get back. Smile walk away and let her think. I say this because men learns relationship and passion from a woman. The women taught the man everything about affection. Think about it. But check this, men found out that what ever level of affection one woman knows can be her own weakness, because there are other woman out there that's on a different level that will teach him something new. Now she pissed off from damn fault teaching your ass her secrets without understanding. that's why woman don't trust other woman …unless they fucking them too…lol them old saying … ladies why you mad , you just fucking yourself over again. Men never knew what he had done to a woman to make her feel so good, until she told him. He's like, really? Man are not a scientist on learning the woman body. We didn't pay that much attention in class back then on that subject and woman didn't either, but they know their own body. Now the man Know , Clit, g- spot, hot points , what gets woman hot , when she want to be lick and how she want it lick. Woman taught you that shit . You might not learned it all by that one woman but learned it from a woman, you feel me? Now check this shit out. The man took it to another level on the woman. He start doing his home work. Researching , on what level and woman is on, then taught another woman what he learned from the other woman like it was his natural talent. Now he turn it around on her a got her sprung. I mean sick, heart broken. The real ladies got mad as hell and tried to educate the women out there…like Opra…and Tina…lol The man still tries hustle the affection of the woman buy slow her down and keep her emotional tide to him by involving a child. They did tried to control that by the Childs port regulations. Now the Baby's is have babies and its out of control. Home training went to street training and the old saying neighborhood raise a child went to the hood raising you child now the system. Because lots of men wants to continue that tired ass affection game of fame on our woman. I with you yes, or else I wouldn't waste my time telling you this, but your are still sleep, WAKE YOUR ASS UP! DA Bishop (0) Comments

Posted: 2/23/2007 6:04:17 PM

MAKE IT YOUR DAY

You know most of the times we celebrate holidays and occasions just to make other people happy, maybe we are not just feeling up to it. For now on I will celebrate my holiday and occasions on the day I damn feel like celebrating them. On this day that I choose to celebrate, I will have all the money, emotion and time in the world to enjoy it. (stress free) It is all about money for society anyway! You have more people stress out on how to enjoy this day then you have happy. If you are not ready or feeling up to it DON'T DO IT! Its your choice don't do it because everyone else is doing it. If its your B-day and I for got, catch me on a good day next week, I'll bet you like me better then the day I was not ready. On V-Day, if there is no love, then no love lost. I will celebrate V-day if I fall In love on Easter. On x-mas I might decide I want to celebrate it in June, you like giving out gifts and shit! The ones you really don't have to spend that much money is Thanks Giving and New Years they can stay the same. Thanks Giving, you can go over to friends or family or both and have a goodtime. But one day that will be on time all the time is my own B-day. I don't care if I'm broke I will be happy, if I'm sad I will be happy. On this day I will make it the best day of my life because I am Not pressured to celebrate it and I am still alive. Da Bishop (0) Comments

Posted: 2/23/2007 6:01:13 PM

EVERYDAY IS V-DAY…LIVE IN DA STUDIO

EVERYDAY IS V-DAY…LIVE IN DA STUDIO: lol...only time can tell, these fools are hiding from their girls because they don't want to get busted, telling their girls I said v-day is just another day and everyone have to be in the studio. (half stepin words) Listen player, if you have game don't be ashamed. I have female friends but I'm older and wiser...I don't lie, I'm single, I'm not driving their car, and I take care of my own business....so I just say " everyday is v-day not just one day out of the year" so I can take a damn day off from dating when I want to, and they will still feel special, because they are my special friends....and I don't date those young knuckle heads like you do. There always have to be understanding and communication with who you date...so I try to educate them with some wisdom as the friendship grow with comfort...stop saying you love them if you are not in love! Stop saying you will be there if you wont! Stop saying she your woman when she's not! and number 1....stop saying you dont care when its true, and she wont mind when she do! if you have to lie to get some ass, become that man and let her pass. (damn we gone make that a new hook, write that down) Don't get me wrong there are some men out there that wont lie but sneak, and know what to say and how to creep. Those are the players that is out there right now with their woman on this special day for she wont trip or have shit to say. (like Fred G Sanford said "you big dummy") Why you just cant be human beings and just stay single if you cant commit. Then that way you wont have to lie and when your female friends ask you " What are you doing 4 v-day? You can say I don't know but I promise I will tell you all about it when its over... here is your flowers and candy before that day come dont want your friends calling me a low down dirty bomb. You have been a good friend and never screamed or shout, I'll be damned on that day my boo will be left out. hold up, wait put that shit away, you cant eat none of it until the v-day. BECAUSE BOO EVERYDAY IS V-DAY 2 ME. THESE FOOLS ARE LAUGHING AT ME...LOL.. BUT MY PHONE IS NOT RINGING EVERY 3MIN....LOL AND I JUST WROTE WHAT I JUST SAID TO THEM AS WE SPEAK...TOP OF THE HEAD SHIT FOR YOUR ASS WAL-MART PUT IT UP RIGHT AFTER HALLOWEEN, SOME OF YOU WALK PASS LIKE YOU DONT KNOW WHAT IT MEAN. SOME STORES HAVE IT UP ALL YEAR ROUND, HALLMARK CARDS NEVER COME DOWN. EVERYDAY IS V-DAY 2 ME Da bishop (0) Comments

Posted: 2/23/2007 6:00:02 PM

SEXORLOVE

SEXORLOVE People who avoids commitments are people who see life the way it is. People who commit are people who accept life the way they live. Sex is only there for your satisfaction. The longer you perform with the same person it becomes a passion of learning each other pleasure. Which may change to satisfy the other persons needs rather then satisfying your own. By performing sex with the person before, you should know what to expect and get what you want with in time. It becomes a game of pleasing each other with challenge on who's the best pleaser with the numbers in distance. Now that's some good sex! when you become selfish and just out to get yours, is how you get hook or what we called whipped on the sex you turn to love. Turning sex to love become lust and you might run out of juice, which make the relationship no more use. Love is here to make you stronger. Its not all about happiness for the rest of your life, but is out there to build that one emotion you are afraid to fight. Hurt will come, you must be prepared. Love is the ones who will always be there. Their presents might not show but their heart will share and feel your care. If you get hurt once, you might get hurt twice it depends on what you learn to except in this life. We can love our mother and love our dad, hurt will come when its time for them to pass. We can love our children no matter what they do, but can we love our mate when they cheat on you. NO! hurt you may feel betrayed of that lust. You want them out of your life all because of no trust. Blame them for everything! You dog! You whore! Your life will be better once they walk out that door. They have ruin your life, please don't feel this way, it will hurt you more you know I'm right, give love another day. If you love them once, you can love them again, if they want to leave don't hate just understand. Love come with hurt, lust, and sometimes sin, it might come from your children, parents, family or friends. Don't cry over that hater, cheater or scrub, they will meet the higher power from the one up above. Who are we to judge? Now that's love. Da Bishop (0) Comments

Posted: 2/23/2007 5:56:39 PM

My secret on how to eliminate racism

My secret on how to eliminate racism Take away the meaning you take away the hate. There is not one generation listed in history that had actually changed the ways of society , but there are generation that had started the process of adjustment. Remember: Negro's back in the days was to ride in the back of the bus. Process of Adjustment: The Negro's started talking among themselves in the back of the bus. The back of the bus became a form of communication to get the word out before work in the Negro community. The bus drivers back in the days was like cops on wheels they was mean, they wanted to get some good gossip but they couldn't hear them talking in the back, so the back of the bus was not a bad thing after all, because the bus driver couldn't hear what was said. The Negro's never smiled about it and made it look like they hated going to the back, but in reality they couldn't wait to get on the bus to gossip. Generation Adjustment: When the young black people got on the bus in the 70"s and 80"s to go to school they ran right to the back of the bus because the back of the bus was fun to hang out. The elders sat up front to communicate to the bus driver and to gossip. The Change: Today when everyone get on the bus to travel for a long distance of time, you notice the back of the bus have that one long comfortable seat that is close to the rest room that everyone thrive for every stop we look back to see if its empty. LOL Remember: The neighborhood use to raise a child. If you was raised in a home with strong family values you was taught respectable home training; May I be excused from the table please, yes sir and no mam. When you go to school, if homework is not completed or you act out, you may get a paddle on the hand by a ruler from your teacher. If your parents are called to the school you use to get a spanking in front of the class room or the hall by your parents. "LOL …….I use to like the classroom better because the hallways echo's and the whole school can hear you." Some parents might take you to the restroom it depend on what mood they were in. When you go home and your parents was not there, the neighbors use to be so nosey and tell your parents everything you do when they wasn't around and on some occasions they was allowed to spank you also. Process of Adjustment: The young people stated back in the days when they grow up no one will be allowed to spank their kids but them. They grew up telling the neighbor's and teacher's don't put your hand on my child, you just call me and I will handle it. Truthfully they didnt do shit, some parents stop going up to the school all together . They start telling their child if someone hit you, you hit them back. If you know you didn't do anything fight for your rights. Generation Adjustment: The government pass a law stating spanking children is teaching your child violence and on some occasion It may turn deadly. No more spanking use time out! This include parents too! The Change: Youth are out of control because lack of home training. Parents are expecting the school system to teach home values in school. Home training is to be taught at home not school!!! There are more violence in school do to what happened at home. More children are talking back to adults and will fight them also. More guns, drugs, and sex in the school system. The neighbor's they just sit back and mind their own business until it enters their homes. Remember: Back in the days when the Negro's use to hear the word nigger they use to go ballistic. Calling a Negro a nigger was causing more violence in the Civil Rights Movement then the main purpose. Strong black leaders knew how to fight words with words simply saying a nigger mean a "ignorant person" , so don't act ignorant to the person that being a nigger to you. Some of the Negro's got the message and some did not understand. Process of Adjustment: The Black community notice if the word nigger can cause black people to act out with so much violence they need to educate the children on the words and understanding the meaning. They started a rhyme saying " stick and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me" Generation Adjustment: The young black youth took the name "Nigger" which is the name that hurts the black people so much, and change it to the name "Nigga" which means my brother or sister, my homeboy, my friend and put love to it like " I love my nigga". This was a smart but confusing and powerful thing to do. Changing the name you hate most to the name that is more comfortable to say. The KKK was like " these niggers is calling each other niggers all the time, now what the fuck we are going to use…….fuckit LET TRY MONKY! The Change: Today we have more people using the name "Nigga" then "Nigger". We even have Whites, Natives, Mexicans, Latinos and Chinese calling each other that word. That is some power for your ass. Some people don't understand but maybe after reading this they might have a vision on what Da Bishop is going with this. Its funny , a young white dude walked up to me the other day, I had known him for awhile, he walked right up to me and said "wasup my Nigger" ….LOL I laugh at him and nodded my head no, He said "what I shouldn't said that, my fought" He said " its hard to understand black people, some of you don't care and some of you do" I said to him " its not that dogg, you have to learn how to say it and when" so I told him, and now I'm telling you. When to say it, and how and why its being said. Put it like this; I would never walk up to an elderly back man or woman and say wasup my "nigga" because they never got over from being called a "Nigger"! NOW THAT WE UNDERSTAND THE PROCESS LETS GET RID OF RACISM Process of Adjustment: To stop racism is to understand and accept everyone's culture and eliminate meaning of the word race as if we were different. We all are human beings, we all live on this earth together some of us never met but has the same blood type, but different skin color. Our faith and belief may be different but we still are human beings. The power is in the faith, and the words and names lies with in your belief. If I was born death and never heard the names "GOD, Buda, Jesus, or Allah would he still exist? If I was dyslectic and read the name "God" backwards would I worship the dog? We all have the power because we all are human beings. If one Human Being can love another from a different tribe, then we should leave no room for hate. We can dislike a person for what he or she may have done, but there is no need to dislike his brother or sister, or family, culture, or tribe. Stop callings us White, Black, Mexican, Jew, Latino, or Chinese. We are human beings on this earth as a man or a woman. If there are other beings actually living on the other planets, and It comes down that we have to go to war with them, would we fight them as Americans alone, or all fight together as human beings. OK NOW I STARTED THE PROCESS OF ADJUSTMENT ITS UP TO YOU TO START THE GENERATION ADJUSTMENT…….. Generation Adjustment: Da Bishop (1) Comments

Posted: 2/23/2007 5:52:36 PM